Monthly Archives: March 2014

Need to have enough to attract it – in Love

I was doing some work and I have been keeping in touch with the angels by way of constantly asking for their help, and some signs and symbols to know that my communication channel with them is open and continuous. I suddenly got a thought, a revelation an ‘aha’ moment as is said. I don’t know how to love. I have shown love to many, kids, elders, friends, but I today realise that I do not know how to love.  I have been authoritative and managerial in showing love. I am concerned about looking silly or sounding childish. Love is about giving and receiving love. I have not been able to give love as it is meant to be and had not been able to receive love as it is meant to be received, i.e. many-fold. Love, friendship, partnership, the association works best that way. I am so willing to change and learn to love. I am requesting angels to show me how to love and guide me how to receive love multi-fold.

Today’s realisation. Affirmation : I am willing to lovingly learn. I have always been a unique person just like each of us. I am sure life will bring it to me…

I am sharing all my experiences
….My intention is that everyone/anyone who is going through what I am going through in my personal and professional life, to them it will serve as their answers…for example the ones that have not experienced or not been able to attract love or blocked love without knowing that they are doing that to themselves, will now know. No one person is alone in this. People ‘do’ end up doing that to oneself. Important thing is the science that entails…. is, it reflects that one needs to have enough love within oneself to be able to give love (Dr Wayne Dyer),

What One Does Not Have One Cannot Give And What You Cannot Give One Will Not Be Able To Receive.

So It Is Important That Each One Of Us Understand And Start ‘Manufacturing’ Love Within To Have The Love Come To Us.

How…please hear this

I have heard it so many times

I was listening to Dr Wayne Dyer interview [] with James Altucher (author ‘choose yourself!’), interesting guy. Wayne Dyer was talking about his book “I can see clearly now”. All that has been happening in our lives or has happened is taking us to what ever we want to do/suppose to do/’purpose of life’. I have been reading excerpts from his book “Arrange whatever pieces that is coming your way”.

So that is what I am doing, arranging all the experiences I have had and new experiences I am having in my personal and professional life, and I am curiously viewing where is it is taking me. I am willingly and noticibly moving forward in what ever way/direction my thoughts lead me. I am learning new things every day and having new revelations every few days and healing some part of my life each day and am able to pass on this healing to IADLife Clients in a way they understand. Here’s where my experience as a Bioinformatician comes in handy. All the time I have spent to find out how to explain, delayer to biologists, I am able to explain all this new science I call “Human Science”, to people who are new to it.

People who listen to me and read me and interact with me through IADLife, will be be able to see clearly now how their life events have brought them to the present state and thus will be able to believe that present events that it will take you to something wonderful

Thank you all Thank you IADLife

Moving Forward with desires

What do you do when you want to move forward. You pack what you desire and leave behind what is not required.

The same thing applies in relationships. Easier said than ….
In emotional life, feelings play a major role and are deep-seated, therefore it is not possible to physically separate old hurtful feelings, to make space  and place beautiful, new feelings.

Well there is a process that can support us in this. Also, would like to clear up that moving forward may or may not necessarily entail letting go. You are merely stating to your universe, that you are willing to move forward, you are willing to change your thoughts that are responsible for the way you have been attracting situations and/or people that have not worked for you. And now when the same people enter your life, the situations will be ones that work for you, and people will give you the reaction/reply/treatment/behaviour/attitude that you desired through your thoughts. And letting go is in no way equal to losing. Letting go is comfortable, smooth, seamless. :: Amanda Collins gives few tips to attract your soul mate, i.e. move on from your present relationship situation and to a flourishing and fruitful (loving, respecting) relationship
1. Self love (another blog topic, needs understanding and explanation, could need clarity by few of us)
2. Write a letter to your soulmate in present tense as if you are enjoying his presence, his company  today
One that I have found to be very useful and have applied it is 2. and …
3. Clearing the clutter – remove any signs and things is indicative of the old relationships/hurt. Their presence are the clutter, and interfere with/in inviting future relationships. Clearing the memories, some items that was shared and/or used by your last relationship/s. clear, throw, burn and say that you are “clearing your past and making way for the beautiful and new”. Emails, Pictures -digital, other copies, Phone number(s), messages, WhatApp msgs etc. too.
Affirmation for this:
Yes, we attract our life experiences, and learn the learning from through these life experiences and through these teachers (men/partner/love-like interest), you have been through so much. So forgive yourself, make space and have willingness to receive new. For forgiveness we could follow the ‘self-forgiveness’, hopono pono – Kuhona Hawaian method. This consists of four lines -” Please forgive me. I am sorry. I love you. Thank you ”

After the self-forgiveness, be nice to yourself. This self forgiveness process is followed by affirmation – “I love and approve myself” several times.

May the transition into new and beautiful relationship, be smooth and comfortable.


I have been reading and learning a lot about “Love” in recent past

Not obsessed, but by habit and by nature (being researcher and all…), when I get intrigued in a subject and in this case really really desire it, so I work towards knowing as much as I can

I attended online lectures by

  • “Ruth Buczynski PhD” interviewing “HelenF isher PhD”, from NICAMBM – She spoke about the neurobiology of romance- really deep
  • Aerielle Ford – shares and teaches points that has worked for her, in her personal life. Hosted ‘Art of Love’ online conference “”
  • “Katherine Woodward Thomas” – she takes online course “Calling the One”. One of her student were sharing her success story and also shared with the listeners the ‘love power statement’. You just need to read it or hear it to feel it

I tweaked it a little bit….I call him ‘My Man’. Being clear to my universe :).

” My very existence ignites my Man, My beloved’s deepest passion, his most profound strength and sweetest  tenderness. He desires my very essence to be interwined with his soul”




Have you ever felt too conscious picking up your phone taking a personal call in an office or other formal environments. Why is it so! Why have you alienated the people around you. I agree that office environment deserves, desires and expects a decorum, that constitutes of keeping the voice in a good tone and decibel, not to spend too much time and energy and office money, on your personal calls, be cordial with your colleagues etc. What is understood is that “we are suppose to take/make the personal calls at our time and dime”. However, it has never been stated in office rules that you cannot take your personal calls. Would you be that conscious if you were outside office amongst strangers/acquaintances.
So if you decide to ‘cut’ /disconnect or not take your personal calls, it is not the office environment, it is you who needs to work on finding out why do personal calls bother you in office environment, why does presence of your office people bother you in taking your personal calls. If you were that averse/clear/strict to about taking calls you would have your phone on ‘silent’ mode. So clearly you do want to receive calls.
Are you concerned you will be teased or ridiculed or this info (personal info) be used against you in any way.
My thinking is that you have spent so much time and energy in creating an appearance in front of outsiders (in this case office people, other cases relatives, residence environment, restaurants, malls etc.), that when you receive a call that challenges your in-authentic/not real/not-you self and threatens to expose/surface your authentic self , i.e. call from loved ones, friends, you get nervous/angry/undecided and you are not able to take their call.
It is really not necessary to take the call, but if you cut it/disconnect it, it’s just sad. How about you silence the ringer and send an sms that you are busy or will call bck later. Else you pick up the call and say that you will call back, or finish a quick conversation. Woundn’t  that be lovely. Personal calls are not private calls.
If your near and dear people have called, its possibly their way of showing endearment and they just remembered you and wanted to have a quick ‘hello’ from you. They value you, like you. Do you like yourself enough to be able to ‘receive‘ that love, attention, importance.
Affirmation: All my communication is with love, joy and grace
I am willing to receive with love