Dear Friend! Please know this about yourself and please say this out-loud “I am on divine assignment on this planet, as a mother/parent/care giver and I am willing to believe I am doing enough.”
Who so ever has managed to put anything otherwise as an opinion of you, is wrong. Even if that person is you. Please do everything in your understanding to change that BELIEF.
If there is something more you wish to do, you still can.
Appreciate yourself, before you expect to be appreciated by others. Appreciate your every aspect. Every day write down at least 3 to 5 sentences, specifically appreciating yourself.
I appreciate myself that I found time in the busy schedule to go to the parlor and get my hair colored
I appreciate you, name, for you have started with this ‘appreciating exercise’ from today
I appreciate myself that I cooked yummy food (anything specific say biryani)
I appreciate you, name, that you went to the bank and got the passbook updated and the FD renewed
Approve of yourself, before expect others to approve of yourself.
Love yourself, before expect others to love you.
Self-love also increases by doing the ‘appreciating exercise’ daily.
Affirm “I love and approve of myself”
If you have doubts on whether you are appreciating or approving of yourself, then just notice your behaviour towards the person you are mother/parent/care-giver to.
Have the willingness to change. Change does not mean that you are not good or something is wrong with you. It only means whatever was not working for you, be it in your circumstance, environment, characteristics, behavior, you are willing to change that.
Change is life enhancement process.
Affirm “I am willing to change”
If the person (you are mother/parent/care-giver to), is not with you anymore i.e. either away, not in communication, or not on this planet. You want a chance to know if you were doing enough or to do better, there still is a way. What you think you have done, what you could have done, what you have received, what you could have received. You could write a letter to this person, pour your heart out and all your thoughts, read the letter few times, see that you have covered every point.
Then say “Thank you for the opportunity”, then burn the letter. In doing this you are giving the letter to the universe and the message is passed to ‘the person’s’ universe. You will feel lighter. You could also receive messages as thoughts, signs, symbols, dialogues that could be the reply to the real question you might have in your mind. You could repeat this process with same person, your-self or some other person .
Skill building is the only way to move forward in life. This is another name for growth and prosperity. However, for this you need to know that if you learn a new word or a language, how to make a bed, new ways or method for the old process, adding new ingredient in the dish to make it healthy or tasty, stitching a button or a tear, solving a math problem, online ordering of the amenities – meds, groceries, clothes, books, stationeries, carpenter, plumber, all of this single, minute‘st’ ones also encompass skill building.
May you be happy and enjoy doing your divine assignment.
Thank you, with loads of love and divine blessings