Monthly Archives: January 2016

Mothers/Parents/Care Givers – on divine assignment

Dear Friend! Please know this about yourself and please say this out-loud  “I am on divine assignment on this planet, as a mother/parent/care giver and I am willing to believe I am doing enough.”

Who so ever has managed to put anything otherwise as an opinion of you, is wrong.  Even if that person is you. Please do everything in your understanding to change that BELIEF.

If there is something more you wish to do, you still can.

Appreciate yourself, before you expect to be appreciated by others. Appreciate your every aspect. Every day write down at least 3 to 5 sentences, specifically appreciating yourself.


I appreciate myself that I found time in the busy schedule to go to the parlor and get my hair colored

I appreciate you, name,  for you have started with this ‘appreciating exercise’  from today

I appreciate myself that I cooked yummy food (anything specific say biryani)

I appreciate you, name, that you went to the bank and got the passbook updated and the FD renewed


Approve of yourself, before expect others to approve of yourself.

Love yourself, before expect others to love you.

Self-love also increases by doing the appreciating exercisedaily.

Affirm “I love and approve of myself”


If you have doubts on whether you are appreciating or approving of yourself, then just notice your behaviour towards the person you are mother/parent/care-giver to.

Have the willingness to change. Change does not mean that you are not good or something is wrong with you. It only means whatever was not working for you, be it in your circumstance, environment, characteristics, behavior, you are willing to change that.

Change is life enhancement process.

Affirm “I am willing to change”

If the person (you are mother/parent/care-giver to), is not with you anymore i.e. either away, not in communication, or not on this planet. You want a chance to know if you were doing enough or to do better, there still is a way. What you think you have done, what you could have done, what you have received, what you could have received.                                                                                                       You could write a letter to this person, pour your heart out and all your thoughts, read the letter few times, see that you have covered every point.

Then say “Thank you for the opportunity”, then burn the letter.  In doing this you are giving the letter to the universe and the message is passed to ‘the person’s’ universe. You will feel lighter. You could also receive messages as thoughts, signs, symbols, dialogues that could be the reply to the real question you might have in your mind.                                                                                                                You could repeat this process with same person, your-self or some other person .

Skill building is the only way to move forward in life. This is another name for growth and prosperity. However, for this you need to know that if you learn a new word or a language, how to make a bed, new ways or method for the old process, adding new ingredient in the dish to make it healthy or tasty, stitching a button or a tear, solving a math problem, online ordering of the amenities – meds, groceries, clothes, books, stationeries, carpenter, plumber, all of this single, minute‘st’ ones also encompass skill building.

May you be happy and enjoy doing your divine assignment.

Thank you, with loads of love and divine blessings



Glass vs Plastic=Fragile vs Tough

Glass vs Plastic=Fragile vs Tough
This came to my mind, when I was placing the glassware and cups, mugs in one basket and plastic ware and steel ware in another. It was so easy for me to place the plastics and steels in one basket. while, keeping the glass wares needed special care.

I could throw the plastic into the basket from far. Even when one slipped from my hand and fell, I had the confidence that I could just pick it up and place it in the decided basket/place, without having to worry or have stress to damage it irreparably.

Glass on the other hand requires careful handling.

I suppose we also decide our life purposes based on the confidence we have on ourselves. Because we know that we are like plastics and steel, so we choose, finish or learn our life purposes by choosing tough life experiences. This is because of a simple fact, which is,  that we know we are tough enough to take it.

This toughness comes from inner faith in our support system that we have with us. Ones we have created, attracted  while we stay on the planet and ones that has accompanied us when we landed on this planet. Former are friends, neighbors, well-wishers, helpers, staff etc. The later are Universe, God, Angels, Guardian Angels, Spirit Guide.

The confidence we have in ourselves and our support system, is also the reason that we know that we on our way and we will get where we need to be.

So hold on my dear friends, you can do this. We are many and we know ourselves well.

Stay in touch and let’s keep supporting each other. Love and regards IADLife

Glass wares are like new souls, that have life experiences, where they have it easy. While plastics are like old souls, that have tough life experiences,



Do not look for concessions. Look for ways to increase your DESERVABILITY.


IADLife Blog:

Dear Friend!

It is indeed a DESERVING Life. You DESERVE all great.

Parameters that are of importance in your ‘desire manifestation’ are the quality, the requirement and the timing of availability of your desire.

Your certainty and tunnel vision for your affordability is what makes you look for concessions. If you could note the manifestation of your asking. Your next action step would be ‘showing/expressing gratitude.’ This will increase trust in your own power and connection with the universe that gets you your manifestations of your desires. As the trust gets more concrete, it radiates into other areas. The other areas are the resources to get the desirable object.

So now you know (a) when you ask you get it and you could trust that other resources are made available, you just need to look in the in all directions and spot the right one, listen to the guidance intently, be willing to take the action step suggested (b) when you ask, also ask that you can easily receive your beautiful desires.

When you ask and you are willing to receive then concessions and discounts come as a means to pave way for you to receive. They come as pleasant added surprises. There is gratitude for that. But, the real reason for the happiness for receiving of the desire made possible.

Discounts, coupons, redeeming of points collected, freebies are fun and motivating only when it matches with parameters of manifesting your desires or something higher. The same becomes lack and not fun when it defocuses and strays you from parameters of manifesting your desires.

Put that focus and energy to life enhancement. Focus on, how to increase your INCOME, skills, knowledge, and quality of your services. Affirm that you are able to pay COMFORTABLY. Praise, be thrilled and celebrate your ABUNDANCE and PROSPERITY. Value your PEACE of mind. TRUST what you need will come to you or will be made available to you along with the RESOURCES you need or require to have it and receive it.

Trust, value and respect your every manifestation. Every small manifestation holds clue and adds confidence to your larger manifestations. It makes you clearer in what you want and your asking, willingness to work towards it, comfortably receiving it, wonderfully showing gratitude and lovingly acknowledge your achievement.

Your ‘deservability’ is personalised for you. Only you have the sole internal true understanding on your DESERVABILITY. What you deserve was decided when you landed on the planet.

If you have an understanding of either a force higher than yours or your true self. Your deservability is same as you would assign them, as you have a part of them in you. Rest of the doubt or questioning of the deservability is a concoction that has emerged from others viewpoint that you chose to accept as your own. You can now choose to let go that ownership. Create your new sense of deservability that entails your deserving you greatest and highest good.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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