Move Child(ren), Spouse/Partner, Relative(s), Yourself from excuse system to ‘SUPPORT SYSTEM’.
Relationship are of two kinds. One that gets associated with you as soon as you are born and the other one you create. You are in relationship for learning, loving, having fun and karma balancing. The universe brings and aligns all the people in your space, that will contribute in completion of your life purpose, while you are on this planet. There are two final aims of any life purpose, ‘Love’ and ‘Peace’. The people with whom you need to settle past karma, are placed closest to you in your relationships. So if there are people in your relationship that are causing frustration and irritation, know this that you are brought together here to learn from each other and to balance your karma. Running from them, avoiding them, cutting them off does not serve the purpose of this alignment. And if you have done this or if you are planning to do so, you need to know that you will keep having people with similar attributes and characteristics till you finish your learning.
Please know that your safety and dignity comes first.
Sometimes, the relationships teach you just that. And that is to recognise that you need to respect, care and value yourself.
The learning that you need to learn from these relationship are very simple, they are constantly prompting you towards self-love, self-respect, self-care, self-forgiveness.
So, instead of using the relationship as an excuse you could make them your support system.
Now a home maker or a busy parent could go for a run with her kids. This way there is healthy interaction with the kids and there is good exercise too. A really difficult parent, in-law, teacher, boss could be an indicator for you to practice looking for things to be grateful in the relationship, thus practicing gratitude and increasing blessings in your life.
May your support system increase in leaps and bounds.
Thank you and best regards
Reena Yadav, IADLife