Monthly Archives: January 2017

Right Something looks for Something Right

Right Something is always on a look out for Something Right

Dear friend!

Right creative team is looking for your right creative idea .

Your right partner in love is looking for you too.

Right home is looking for the right residents.

Resources that are right for your next big venture are waiting to be found.

Your most favourite desire is waiting to be aligned with the right feelings and vibrations that will help in manifesting it.

You looking for a job, have applied and applied. In some places you got through the interview, in some places you got in through the 1st phase, in others you reached till the one on one discussion. You think and you know that you have done your best, but the job you were eyeing is not yours yet. If you really really want it, there are great chances that you might get it. Once you get it, you may realise what you truly wanted did not come in through this job as a package. So you start looking again.

Instead how about you do the following :

A)Be clear in what you want. B) e.g. You want a job ! What kind ! C) What do you wish to achieve or receive through this job? List them. D) Now either you decide from where you are going to get all that you listed in ‘C’ and follow the actions that makes sense to you or just be open to the RIGHT job that provides you all that you listed in ‘C’, which could open a world full of possibilities. E) Action steps like the right job advt., right acquaintance, right idea to learn a new skill set, will start catching your attention. Follow them and carry out these actions.

Because the right job is looking for the exact set of qualifications that are right for it, and which is with you only.

This applies in everything, right plumber, right hair stylist, right group, other right service providers, right home, right vehicle,  to name a few   are all looking for something right in you or something right connected with you.

So, keep asking for things that are ‘right’  for you and ‘of your highest good’.

On behalf of IADLife and me, may this or something higher come to you soon.   God Bless.

Have  a Happy February.

Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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SOLUTIONS reside right next to clarity about the problem

SOLUTIONS reside right next to clarity about the problem

When you are able to recognise your problems, clearly.  Stay with this CLARITY for few more moments, because the SOLUTIONS reside right next to that clarity

Dear friend!

Big applause for those who can recognise their ‘problem’.

As a next step you are able to explain what is the situation in detail. Either you discuss with your friends or with your family. As soon as you gain clarity about the issue, many of you feel the urge to share it with the world. So you turn to social networking sites.

Clarity does that to people. Clarity in anything gives an understanding that raises you to a level where it is easy to explain what you actually want to express. Here it’s about your problem/ issue/ situation.

This is quite an achievement.

But, what would you or anyone gain from agreeing with you that, such a ‘problem’ really exists. You could choose to trust your understanding, instead of looking for approval from the mob. The fact that you recognised and have clarity enough about the ‘problem’, to pen it down or voice it, speaks volumes about your willingness to acknowledge it’s presence.

Stay with this clarity for just a few more moments, instead of being in a hurry to showcase your ‘problem’ to your world. If you do that, you will be pleasantly surprised to notice that the solution to the ‘problem’ co-exists and resides with the ‘clarity about the problem’.

Please be mindful of not staying with the ‘effects of problem’, because that will pull you down to the low vibration and keep you there. Here there is neither clarity nor solution.

When you are able to pull yourself out of this low vibration and stay with the clear understanding of the ‘problem’, you will have solutions clearly visible too.

Next step is to apply it. And now, share this with your world.

Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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recent achievement gets response from unhealed past

Recent Achievement Gets Response From Unhealed Past

People are remembered as vividly as

their most recent achievement

but

your response is based on the past opinion

that is part of you that needs

HEALING

 

Dear friend!

Do you watch movies? Who is your favorite actor? Do you have one favorite or few? Do you like or appreciate them according to the character they play.

Either ways, what do you remember about them?

Similarly, when you think of your friend, acquaintance or even stranger, what do you remember about him/her?

What ever you remember is the memory that is dictated by the past impressions of the opinions formed by you about that person. The opinion formed is a part of you that requires most healing.

For instance an actor has acted well in movies but has not been seen consistently in movies, for x y z reasons. You will remember the infrequency of the actor’s appearance on the screen, which reflects the inconsistency in work. This is the aspect that you recognise and that is what you wish to change in your life. Later on when you have worked and changed that aspect of your life and  you would have included consistency as a characteristics in your life, you will if/when revisit the actor’s work, then you may be able to appreciate/notice other aspects of that actor and/or acting. This is an indicator in your life that, that aspect has been healed.

Your friend or acquaintance with whom you have been comfortable but have an impression based on your opinion that the person is rude, desperate or competent, charming. Know this, even if you remember that aspect of him/her/them that you admire, you actually are looking for ways to include that in your life. For example you want to be competent or you want to be charming or to recognised as either or both.

In your life experiences someone has been nice to you but one instance of insult, misbehavior or mishap in his/her life, changes your opinion of him/her. Why?

  1. A) This is the reflection of characteristics or attribute of you in  your life, which has come in your space in the form of someone else’s behavior, which you desire to change or heal.
  2. B) This is as a result of the impression that has been brewing due to the piled up sentiments, specifically towards that person, that has not been worked on or healed.

The moment you recognise that, you will be able to see how fast your opinion of that person changes. In case it remains unhealed, regardless of the person’s input in your life, you will continue to respond to the person based on the impression of past observations.

When not done, you could be missing out on wonderful and fun interactions with this person/people. And you are most definitely missing out on your healing and life enhancements.

When done, it gives you a feeling of  being ‘free’.

To make your moving forward in life fun, deal with it NOW.

Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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YOUR PLAN or someone else’s doing

Was it someone else’s doing

or

YOUR PLAN all along?

Dear friend!

Consider this, you are going to office on a Monday morning and just before you leave the house, your 1 year old spills juice on your well ironed shirt. You have to make a choice, to change your garment or clean up and rush to the office. All the while you are in that predicament you are simultaneously looking at your child, saying ‘ you did this 🙂 .’

What if you are educated with this fine fact that ‘you are responsible for every situation that happens in your life.’ Would you be willing to take that responsibility?

Think in retrospect, did you have resistance going to the office. Was there a meeting that you felt you were not prepared for or was it the Monday morning traffic that you dreading or were you avoiding someone. You may or may not know when or where, but you end up making statements and setting intentions creating these situations.

Your attention always goes to others, as if they were responsible for the your life’s situation. But in actuality, it has been YOUR PLAN that gave rise to these situations.

You think of any situation(s), then try to recall what could you have wanted in that situation that made you make that statement. So the clever thing would be to know what you really really want and say it accordingly. For instance here you could say, ‘ I want to be comfortable with this day’, and see how the day unfolds, regardless of the events. Everything that use to catch your attention as irritating will be comfortable or irritating things will not happen at all.

Important thing to note is how much are you willing to give yourself permission to aspire or to ask .

So you could expand and say  ‘I am having a wonderful day with miraculous results’, and be open to receiving those miraculous results.

You do this for a few times and you will really not need to have resistance towards any experiences. You become open to exploring.

Thank you and best regards
Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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Ask for FREEDOM

Ask for FREEDOM

  • From attributes not from people
  • From patterns not from experiences
  • From pain not from learning
  • From lethargy not from prosperity
  • From fear not from abundance
  • From procrastination not from work
  • From declutter not from clearing
  • From depression not from hope
  • From desperation not from inspiration
  • From doubt not from CHANGE

 
Dear friend!

Freedom is your birth right.

But what are you asking for freedom from.

Instead of running from something you don’t want, start sprinting towards something you desire.  Just be clear on what is it that benefits you. Pay more attention to which direction you are going. Allow your speed to vary. Be constant in your approach. Dedicate your energy into achieving your goals. Always remember from where you started. Be grateful for every experience along the way. Notice where you are nearing.

Know this, you are free to have what you can give yourself permission to have.

Have a happy free life.

Best regards

Reena Yadav, IADLife

IADLife.com

http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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Consistent implementation leads to MANIFESTATION

Having Knowledge is START

Understanding is STEP FORWARD

Consistent implementation is what leads to MANIFESTATION

 

Dear friend!

To achieve anything ‘giving up’ is never an option. As soon as you receive a learning or solution you either put it to practical use or put it in reservoir.

You have the knowledge in your reservoir. That is great. You applied it, faced resistance and that’s how it got there, in your reservoir.

How much do you want to change your life!

That much!

Then, how about putting it to practice some more.

If you are still finding it difficult to practice then, find ways to understand it, delayer it. If need be simplify it. Now, apply it again.

How passionate are you to enhance your life and receive what you desire.

Consistently implement what you have learnt.

This will most definitely lead you to your manifestations .

That’s it.

Good wishes.

Reena Yadav, IADLife

IADLife.com

http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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make difficult COMFORTABLE

I don’t say I am  comfortable with difficult.

But I sure do want to make difficult COMFORTABLE.

Dear friend!

Healing process sure does seem like an uphill task. Every process and action during healing is encountered by resistance, blockages and old beliefs that make the healing work ‘difficult’. All this difficulty makes the healing process look like ‘a lot of work’, but please know this that ‘you are definitely worth it.’

Whether you see it as a challenge or take it as one, you are expecting it to be difficult. For those who are dedicated to changing their lives, would be willing to accept ‘difficult’ as a part of the healing process. That does not by any way mean that you have to be comfortable with healing process being ‘difficult.’

When you are doing the work continuously and honestly, you see the results towards what you desire. You will notice that you are getting comfortable with the steps.

Consistently, diligently, passionately, lovingly keep practicing. This will convert anything that is difficult into COMFORTABLE.

Having said that please know that healing process(s) is all about understanding and carrying out the steps. What you think is ‘difficult’ is the pain you endure, confusion you get entangled in, the uncertainty of manifestation and the time it takes. In reality, healing process is like language, project or adventure. And just like any new skill and talent, the more you practice the better you get at it. And eventually it becomes seamlessly a part of your everyday routine. And before you realise it, you start to ace it. This builds your confidence and are able to take another healing step easily.

Take your healing process as an adventure and explore it.

Thank you Best regards .

Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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Value your manager – ‘your conscience’

Value your manager – ‘your conscience’

Please do share with all those who you think could benefit from it.

Blog : https://itsadeservinglife.wordpress.com/2017/01/22/value-your-manager-your-conscience/

Dear friend!

Your first manager is/are your parent(s).

As you grow older your manager might change. The way you are managed changes. Either someone else manages you or you manage you.

However, your only manager that is consistent and is also an integral part of you is ‘your conscience’. Your conscience is your permanent manager. Your conscience tells you when you are lagging. Your conscience pushes you towards where you need to go. Your conscience pulls you away from where you are not suppose to venture. Your conscience gives you constant reminder when you stray. Your conscience communicates with you through your thoughts and feelings. Your conscience is the constant conversation within that is a continuous relay of information and guidance. Your conscience does not mind your outbursts, irritation or your frustrations. Your conscience does not get biased or deterred by your caress or excuses.

Your conscience is not judgmental of your actions or reactions. Your conscience is not distracted by other’s flattery, sweet words or by other’s harsh words, high decibel.

Your conscience conveys the ultimate answers.

Stay connected with your conscience. Simple breathing and writing exercises will strength the bond between you and your conscience.

You could do easy or deep breathing, where you observe exhaling and inhaling of your breath. You could do that while you focus on a candle light, color or paint or you could follow PRANAYAMA. In Pranayama, you are inhaling in from left nostril only and exhaling from right. Then inhaling from right nostril only and exhaling from left. This is one round. You could do 5 to 15 to 25 rounds at once. Get into this breathing process according to the time you have and when you are not operating any machinery. You could decide to keep your eyes open or close your eyes, as per your convenience. Before you start this conscious breathing, just ask yourself a question for which you seek an answer.

Your thoughts start to surface. They are in words in mind or written somewhere, numbers, scenes from onscreen or reality. Make a note. Analyse it in a while. Value these self messages and practice getting a deeper connection with self.

May you get all the answers and guidance you are seeking.

Thank you Best regards .

Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

 

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Seek alignment of loving feelings

We are all seeking alignment, whether they are – Loving feelings Or Crappy feelings

Dear Friend!

What do you notice in the following :

*A lone man enter a restaurant and the waiter smiles and greets him. Suggests him a seating and continues to pleasantly discuss how can he and the restaurant serve him. Now the man smiles back saying polite words. Waiter looks pleased by his efforts and customer’s reciprocation.

*A teacher scolding a 11 year old student. The child continues to smile. The teacher increases the intensity of the verbal scolding. The smile on the student’s face starts to disappear. Teacher then makes few more statements and stops, looking satisfied.

*Two men caught in a brawl in the middle of a street have their hands on each others collar and neck, are shouting at each other to make their point. Even after people separate them, they part mumbling in air looking irritated.

*A group of teenagers meet for a lunch dressed to their best in a restaurant they have been desiring to visit in a long time. The moment they meet at the entrance, they start to jump in a circle and laugh and talk all at once. The pitch and decibel of the sound and their excitement of the whole group seemed very high.

Did you notice, how each participant in all the cases above, relentlessly kept pursuing the gesture till the other participant would start to reciprocate in the similar manner.
Whether the situations were angry, sad, intense or happy, serene, fun, any one participant did not feel satisfied till they brought the other participant to the same/similar vibration which was reflected through their behavior in body language or verbal language.

Do you do that? Have you done that?
i.e. Kept entertaining people till they look pleased.
Or
Kept on pushing an argument till the other person gets equally or more agitated.

Why do you do that?
What could be the compulsion of getting the other person to your vibration.
Well the answer is ‘you do this because you feel less understood or approved when people don’t respond in a way as if your point is being understood’. This is seeking alignment.

What if you know that you need not keep trying to get someone’s approval, you just make your point and be confident that you have done your best. You are also open to other options like listening to their opinion, moving on or negotiation.

Now if you are at the receiving end, you could stand up for yourself by placing your points in a calm manner and under all conditions you do not get sucked into the whirlpool of the low vibrations by being aware of what the situation is. You could give the other person benefit of the doubt i.e. you know the reason why the person behaves like that while that person does not. Know that sometimes it is not the right time to get into counter arguments. In case you are unable to move on and you do get the low vibration discussions. It’s kool. That happened. As soon as you realise the situation, be willing to change.

Others change when you change.

Please know that you are constantly doing this to yourself. So, the alignment you are seeking, let it be the pleasant one.

Reena Yadav, IADLife
IADLife.com
http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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Motivation helps to face the problem

Too much of criticism makes you a quitter and runner.

Only MOTIVATION makes you stand up and face the problem

Please do share with all those who you think could benefit from it.

Blog : https://itsadeservinglife.wordpress.com/2017/01/18/motivation-makes-to-face-the-problem/

Dear Friend!

Do you feel you are a runner or a quitter!

Have you wondered why did you become this!

In retrospection, do you see yourself being criticised or snubbed by someone significant or influential in your life, when you decided to take an action, whether it was about exploring something, expanding your experiences or merely sharing an opinion. If so? What happened next? Did you revisit the request, suggestion, discussion or with supportive comment. Or did you give up. If so? Why? Did the past experiences of snubbing or criticism steal your thunder and emotionally cajoled you into not taking that action.

No action, no life experience.

No life experience, no growth.

Life feels stranded.

You end up quitting every time ‘situation gets tough’ or if you ‘sense it might be tough’. You run in every occasion of adverse condition.

At this stage, all this happens because of self-criticism and/or fear of criticism from others. As a result you are dissatisfied all the time. You tend to feel you have not done enough. You keep looking for ways and means to do more. Yet you never feel adequate or that you have reached your goal.

Switch to ‘MOTIVATION’.

Promote yourself to explore, expand and take ACTION. Fill your life with beautiful experiences.

Notice the increase in your confidence level to face your life situations. Find solutions. Live your life with new vigor.

Now if you are comfortable, support to do the same for others.

Thank you and best regards

Reena Yadav, IADLife

IADLife.com

http://www.facebook.com/IADLife

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