Others TRUST You As Much, You TRUST Yourself.
Trust emerges from reliability. When reliability shakes then TRUST dwindles. As trust ends, dictation starts. Dictation is the lack of faith. When you absolutely ‘have to’, ‘have to’, say it repeatedly because you don’t have any evidence that what you are saying is being comprehended, embraced and will be executed, that’s the indication of lack of trust.
Where is this trustlessness coming from?
# When you were constantly having what you did not want in your life, like life experiences, material things, mismatched desire manifestation.
#When you are called a liar when it is your word against others, and it is not enough.
All this starts to diminish faith in self. This raises questions on your self-worth and reliability.
You start being cautious of your own thoughts and words, ‘Can what I say, be accepted’, ‘Will what I say, be trusted.’
How to gain self-trust?
# Be true to yourself: Whatever you say or do has to come from you and it has to be agreeable to you. You don’t need to get self-righteous about your level of honesty. Be willing to customise your version according to the audience. But, be very very honest with self.
# Acknowledge, value and respect your existence: You are important. You are the most important person in your Universe. Your existence is a fact. Your existence has meaning, has a purpose and a reason.
# Know what you have done is enough: With the resources, you have in hand, you have completed what will be adequate for the moment. You need to consider the time, energy and understanding that you put in to learn and deal with the resistance too.
# And still, give yourself permission to do more: While you know, given the circumstances and resources you have done enough. However, if you wish to do more or change something, you could still consider it.
# Always keep asking yourself “What did I do right?’, ‘What am I doing right, at this very moment’: Every moment bring your attention and focus on your capability, what you are capable of. From this kind of space, your self-confidence starts to move up like a rocket.
All this boosts self-faith and self-TRUST.
If you have been experiencing the situations and incidents that indicate other’s lack of ‘trust’ in you then, it is time to self-introspect and find out where there is a lack of self-trust.
Others show of trust in you extend as much as your own trust in you. Others impression of trust for you expand as much as your self-trust.
So now it is time, to increase your self-trust.
Affirmation “I have trust in me.” “I trust myself.” “I trust my life.”
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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