You Want To Heal The World Then, Heal Yourself.
You Want To Change The World Then, Change Yourself
Serving is the ultimate way of exhibiting to others that you qualify. By the preachers, it has been peppered, splashed, and/or sprinkled in your space and has ultimately made its way to your mind, that you are supposed to help others.
You are on a planet where you choose to be co-dependant, co-exist, co-operate, co-create with other planet‘mates’. If you have chosen to be a social being, other people are important in/for your life and you are important in/for their life.
If you have been one of the people who has learned and practiced taking care of others as ‘the right thing to do’ then, the point to be considered and pondered over is that, while you are caring for others, what is happening in your space. Who is taking care of YOU? How is this affecting your health, career, relationships?
Are you content, happy, satisfied and thrilled?
Or are you frustrated, irritated and saddened by the lack of acceptance, reciprocation and/or replenishment?
If it is the later then, it is important for you to know that you cannot be contributing to others life if you are in deficit in your own life or going into deficit in your life as a consequence to this contribution. In this state of deficit, any support, help, aid provided will benefit no one.
The lack that you see in your space has little or nothing to do with the quantity. The main deciding factor is willingness. When you are not convinced but you are doing it anyways because of the external factors, then the effort always backfires.
You don’t get returns in gratitude or you don’t see your input being considered or making an impact or being enough situation wise. This may dissuade you and the world could lose your very necessary assistance.
If you are happy contributing in others life then this condition has already been met.
The strongest reason for your joyful and cheerful involvement in others life is your own contentment. You are content because you have the adequate amount of what you wish to share or are sharing.
When you see that you have less then you could work towards bringing adequacy in your life. When you have, you can give. When you have more, you can give more.
You are a compassionate, kind, caring being. It is natural that your desire to provide help and healing to the world. You wish to change the world. You want to do what you can and want to make difference at any and/or many levels. This planet needs more people like you.
To do this in a more effective manner, you need to redirect the same set of supplies of compassion, kindness and care towards yourself. You need to be kind to yourself and take care of yourself.
What this means is, instead of getting pulled into the sadness of what you want to heal. You invest in yourself, equip yourself with the resources like the knowledge that gives you the know-how of how to best take care of the situation.
Take care of your health.
Be in the frame of health and mind to take care of yourself and many others. To change the situation in/of the world you need to change the way you look at the situation. Are you willing to look at the possibilities? Are you willing to put in the time and energy give hope and add faith? If so, you will first need to have enough of that within you.
Once your communication is full of possibilities and your actions will reflect solutions. The designing and implementation are then visible. Awesome results are also evident.
This brings relief to all.
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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