Always Have People In Your Space That Say To You, “You can do it”, “It’s doable”, “Let’s do it.”
Always Say To Your-self, “I Can Do It”
(Repeat it like A mantra, it works like A charm)
Motivate, inspire, and promote yourself every chance you get. Encourage yourself to take the step forward.
Are you lazy, let down, embarrassed, petrified, intimidated or perplexed about the next step? Then know this that, this is only ‘the understanding’ of what you are at this point pertaining to the next step. Letting this understanding keep you from your next action step is limiting yourself.
Limiting is stifling and suffocating. You are depriving yourself and the world of your creativity.
Embrace life that you desire and deserve, that is of you living your optimum potential. Keep your focus on your abilities. Notice what all you are already doing. Give yourself permission to do more.
You are meant to be at your creative best. You need guidance, support and helping hand to achieve. Get into the habit of asking for the help. Persuade yourself to have questions, and be open to receiving and understanding the answers. Allow yourself to explore and expand.
You require courage. You standing by yourself is ample and enough.
Decide your process and pace, customise it as per you.
Always ask yourself two questions several times and at all phases and steps, (1) ‘What do I/you have to get this done’ (2) ‘What do I/you need to get this done.’
All of you and all of your resources are here for you.
You see now, that you have every reason to do what you decide or envision to do. You just need to tell yourself ‘I/you can do it.’
Only consider opinions, suggestions, advice from all who point toward the next step as a possibility. Till you can find/attract the ‘glass half full’ kind of support, you could search for what works for you from amongst this kind of support, making the best of what you have.
If trying to do your task right, properly, perfectly and with precision is the aim. Let that not become your limitation. Don’t keep waiting and/or preparing to be that. Don’t be hard/harsh with yourself every time you fall short or miss the mark.
Listen to all but pay attention to only who are saying “You Can Do It”, “It’s Doable”, “Let’s Do It.”
The same goes for your thoughts. Listen to all your thoughts but pay heed to thoughts that boost your morale and energy.
Once you get into the ‘I can do it,’ habit, this practice can be extended to others.
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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