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Prosperity-Full speed ahead

Prosperity-Full speed ahead

Small blockages can also delay you progressing ahead towards the prosperity.

Prosperity Ful Speed Ahead

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Dear Friend!

Even if there are small blockages that you find out are causing your ‘not moving forward’, intend to deal with them or solve them right away.

Case Study: ‘J’ was to meet his friends at the pub. He was looking forward to the Friday evening get-together. As the time to start came closer. He got more excited, he was somehow feeling anxious and wanted to leave the work place as soon as the small hand of the clock touched five and the big hand reached twelve. He hurriedly logged out and switched off his computer. As he got up and walked away from his workstation he glanced back. There was something about the sitting place that was making him anxious. He increased his pace, entered the elevator. As soon as he reached the ground floor he swiped out in a jiffy and was out of the office building gate. He breathed a sigh of relief as if a burden had been lifted.

He got into his car and started to drive towards the pub after the intimation messages were sent in the group of each person starting for the common destination. It was a short 20mins drive. 10 mins since he started from his office parking lot, he realised he hadn’t moved very far from the office. Another 10 mins later, his friends who reached started to message ‘traffic?’. He then started to pay attention that there was little or no traffic. But he was still not able to increase the speed of his vehicle. There was a three wheeler that was driving slow on the uphill road, then there was a bike rider, then there was a Buffalo, each one of them before his vehicle every time he tried to move past them. Because of the traffic from the opposite side, he could not over take or speed.

As he noticed and pondered over these smaller vehicles that were slowing him down and at times bringing his vehicle to a halt, he realised that there were small jobs/tasks that were left pending in the office which was creating a look of inefficiency in his mind. He was keeping all easy, doable and regular work for later. These small jobs had accumulated and now he did not feel motivated to work on them and they had piled up and were causing stress.

He reached, he had fun. Next day he came back to his office, made a list of the to do list, assigned each task a time limit. And went back to enjoy the rest of his weekend.

What are these small blockages in your life? It could they be any of these:

$You have started something. You successfully completed the 1st mile stone and you stopped. You convinced that doing that is easy and doable and you can start or stop at any time. But you postpone it to the next day and the week and that goes on.

$When the process or step is easy and small. You question its necessity or authenticity. You take up things that are tough and elaborate.

$ Waiting. You still waiting for someone or something to change.

$ Micromanaging, moving your eyes from the prize, finding it difficult to let go and not remembering the bigger picture.

$ Self-sabotage, you start something, you criticize or show dissatisfaction. As a result, you attract all lack, for example, fall sick or shortage of resources.

$ Brooding over all the above instead of actually taking an action.

Getting back on the horse: So ok you fell. Now get back up.

You do what ‘J’ from the above case study did.

(a)    Make a to do list. (b) Check for the resources required and their availability. (c) Assign the time lines. (d) Start doing them.

Even though they are small blockages and they are still keeping you from moving forward full speed ahead. Prosperity is right ahead.

Because these blockages are small, they seem insignificant and subtle. But, in some time they cause a lot of stress and tension. You keep trying to solve the bigger tasks/jobs/goals and still wonder why is there no desired speed towards the reward.

Remove the small blockages, get to work on them NOW. Receive Prosperity in full swing.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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FUN begins now

Difficult is over. FUN begins now.

FUN begins now

 

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Dear Friend!

The moment you realise that you or anyone else require healing is the moment you will now know is the end of ‘Difficult’ and the ‘FUN’ begins now.

Sometimes the thing that gives you most despair is what you want to change the most. What you are most inclined to change immediately and impromptu are the ones that are most hurtful. It is hurtful when there is a lack. Lack in ‘faith’ is the lack that tops all lacks. This is indicative from when you feel powerless and start to assess that possibly something outside of you is controlling and deciding for your life.

Your willingness is the main component participating in all your life experiences. People, things, patterns, experiences, and situations stay, change or leave as per your willingness to embrace the learning. There are other components too. Your alertness to understand this process. Your readiness to accept the set but flexible principles the guide you in your journey called LIFE.

Life is carefully designed and decided sequence of learning(s). Universe, your higher force or your higher self, make available for you the resources that are required for the learning. You are co-creating your life in collaboration with them.  They work only according to your willingness. Your learning comes through your life experiences. You, your life experiences, and your learning are unique. You have a lot of the capability and capacity to do whatever is required for these experiences. You chose to be a social being and therefore, asking and taking help is an important attribute in this choice of status. Your capabilities will contribute in someone else’s life’s learning experiences. Someone else’s capability will contribute in your life’s experiences. Contribution in each other’s lives is also a life experience that is part of life’s learning for all involved.

Who to involve in asking and how to ask is a significant factor in this. What follows after asking and how that needs to be handled is yet another important factor. Asking has to be clear, specific and yet has to have flexibility. Asking is followed by receiving. You involve self and/or others for both asking and receiving. Asking and receiving in high vibration is a magical way of getting what you have asked for or something higher. And is therefore highly recommended. Asking and receiving is the most necessary capability that you have. You need to apply your willingness to utilise this capability to smoothen the life’s movement in the forward direction.

In gist, when there is hurt, you want to remove hurt, you ask and you receive help, your learning is attained. It’s time to celebrate.

Thus your knowledge of these life’s protocol/steps gives you the awareness of the fact that the moment you detect something is difficult, the most plausible end to that is FUN.

So now you don’t need to be scared of tough life experiences. You don’t need to worry. You use to worry because you did not know what to do in this situation or what lies ahead in this situation.

Knowledge itself is powerful.

Implementation is the key to acknowledging the power.

Go right ahead. Remember and remind yourself to follow the life’s protocol. Have a wonderfully deserving life. Have FUN.

 

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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Do things because YOU CAN

Do things because YOU CAN not because someone else cannot.

Do things because YOU CAN

 

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Dear Friend!

Do you like to help or support! Are you helping kind! What is the exclamation remarks that come out of your mouth when you see someone in need?

O sad he/she/they/it cannot!

Or

O Yay I can! I am here! I got you, buddy!

You cannot give anything that you don’t already have. When you do decide to give, it comes from a combination of having enough to share and the willingness to share. While giving, your attention goes to two aspects  (a) what is the requirement at/of the situation (b) what you have and if you have the willingness to share.

Your abilities hold more value and use than others lack of it.

When you focus on others inabilities. You try your best to compensate that by keeping them comfortable to provide them the support whilst your real investigative mind focus is on ‘why they were not able to.’ What you focus on you attract. The inability you are focussing on, you end up noticing in your life in some area. This inability is also lack. This instills fear, which is connected to ‘not having enough.’ Questions like, would this happen when you are in this position, that is, when you cannot, starts to arise in your mind.

Next time you look at someone with lack then, instead of checking your ‘banks full of abilities’, you get more fearful of ‘what if.’ You will, therefore, see lack everywhere. It also proves to you that it is not nice not to have, that is when you do not have you have to ask or depend. You try your best not to be in that position. So you constantly are in the reminder of that. You still get in these situations and by now it is registered in your mind that it is not pleasant to be in this position. You now develop an aversion towards such situations that imply lack to you. This impression extends to the person/thing/entity that is in this situation. You start asking all wrong questions ‘why did this situation happen’, ‘should have known better.’ And all your intentions of providing support ‘because you can’, becomes more about ‘because they cannot.’ When you are not ready, unwilling or are unprepared, it may cause irritation and dislike towards extending the help and support.

Respect every situation, entity, experience. Have respect for it. Life is full of experiences customised to each one on this planet. Each one is here to be co-dependant. Each and every person is not here to have all the same abilities. ABILITIES are inherent and/or are developed and is also absorbed and reflected according to an individual. Complementation of the abilities is what gives you an opportunity to flex the muscles of the abilities. It is a feel good factor when you contribute where your ability is required, in demand, has value and is beneficial.

You need not look for situations with inabilities. Because if you do spot them, that only means that you have been able to do so because it is a reflection of something within you.

Focussing and being grateful for what you can, only helps gain enough confidence in what you can.

Each opportunity you get to share ‘what you can’, is an excellent chance to keep honing ‘what you can.’ So when the opportune time and event comes you shall get to satisfactorily utilise and show ‘what you can.’

Thank you for contributing, helping and supporting. Thank you because you can.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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Why Micromanage?

Why micromanage?-Wednesday Why?

Why Micromanage-Wednesday Why

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Q by Mrs. Sandhya Rani T D, Bangalore, Karnataka.

“I have heard and read from different website and books is when disbelief is highly dominant and also when they least expect that their wish will be fulfilled, how come their wish gets fulfilled and also sometimes their wish is fulfilled in the most wonderful way where they are completely provided with everything and they need not have to bother further about that particular area of life whether its finance or health or relationships etc. In short i meant sometimes everything gets set right at once.”

Dear Friend!

Getting out of the way of the Universe is compared to placing the order in a restaurant and not micromanaging the chef’s cooking. You have the trust as per the previous experience of yours or others. You think or do other things while the order is visibly or in the background getting prepared.

But, what do you do when the order takes longer than you anticipated. You look around, catch hold of the first waiter that crosses your table and remind, inquire, request to check your order and also ask/demand for the exact time required for the order to be ready.

How do you react when a flight is delayed? Are you agitated, frustrated, worried or angry?  Or are you relieved, glad, unaffected or calm? Here too you wait for a while then go and recheck either the flight information that’s being displayed or inquired from personnel at the ‘i’ counter.

The ‘not interfering’, ‘not getting bothered’ or even ‘glad that it has not happened yet’ part lasts only that long. You get restless and words that flow is not helping time lag situation anymore, which now has become a ‘delay’.

Your strongest support here even during the gap period is your understanding that everything always happens for the right reasons. Look around, check and review what is it that you need to do, that needed to be done before your food or your flight arrives (as per the examples above).

In life, there is no ‘wait’ period. Everything arrives, takes place and is ready at the right divine time for you. The time before is your preparation time to be equipped to enjoy what you are here to receive. Sometimes it is just the mind, temperament or thought adjustments that are required before you receive.

The journey to the destination has learning and experiences that are the requirements for what you are to receive, which is what you have asked for. Your involvement in the learning and experiences keeps you from re-asking and/or changing the request thus not interfering and staying pre-occupied. You thus get out of the Universe’s path.

It is not ‘disbelief’. It is the belief that’s in play here. It is the trust that you are definitely getting that what you have asked for or something higher.

It is never when ‘you least expect it’. God/Universe is constantly informing us of the next step.

“It is never that God/Universe works in mysterious ways. You are too distracted to read the signs.” When what you have asked for arrives, and knocks on your door or is in your face that you notice. Many times you are not noticing and therefore, you are actually missing out and not receiving it.

The moment you give yourself permission to receive. You receive in all areas together because you are now allowing your receiving.

So be aware. Keep faith. Do the action. Know that what you have asked for in any and all areas of your life.

It has, it is and/or will come to you. Keep paying attention.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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Internal RESPECT exudes external respect

Your Inner Self RESPECT Exudes Respect From External Factors.

Internal Respect Exudes External Respect

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Dear Friend!

What is respect? What is your understanding of RESPECT? What does it mean to you to be respected?

What words? What decibel? What body language? What physical action or gesture? Where did you first learn about respect? What is your first memory of respect or disrespect? Listing out what is disrespect for you can also give you definition of or knowledge of what RESPECT is for you. Disrespect or showing others down does not mean respect for you. Validation of respect is always at the feelings level.

How to know what is ‘RESPECT’ for you? You notice, observe people and entities getting respect. That becomes your understanding of respect. Even when you understand it is your influencers version of respect you need to know, it is actually the understanding you have chosen so it is YOUR definition of respect.

To understand ‘respect’ better find out how much respect you are getting in your life!

Are you getting enough respect in your life? There are three correct answers to this question (a) YES (b) NO (c) MAYBE.

Let’s address them, starting with ‘Maybe’.

(c) Maybe, I think so, I am not sure: This is when you are clearly uncertain whether what you are getting is respect. Because the effect of the respect that is supposed to be is not there for you for long or fades off in a while. This is the point where you need to revisit the understanding of the word ‘respect’ in your space. Review the idea of respect. Are you trying to replicate someone else’s understanding of respect? Are you dismissing the other gestures of respect that you are receiving?

Then know this, ‘you have been asking for someone else’s idea of respect’, and as soon as you get it, it’s a ‘feel good factor’ on an immediate basis. However, very soon you will see the same gesture as something quite the opposite of respect.

Notice people and entities you respect. What is it that you see? Ask yourself, what is it about them that you like that emits an understanding of respect to you? Then sense it at the feelings level. You feel calm content, motivated and/or exhilarated if you get the same or similar gestures. That’s it, this is your version of respect. Change, enhance, add or tweak as your knowledge of/in life grows.

(b) No: Then start to understand and create a definition of respect. Now apply it to yourself. Yes, even gesture-wise. Open the door for yourself as if you are opening and holding the door for your most favourite person. Thank yourself for that gesture, in your mind or out loud. When you see your reflection anywhere greet or appreciate your reflection silently or audibly. Smile or just show acknowledgment say by a nod, at yourself. When you feel good then you know you have gotten what is respect for you.

(a) Yes: If you already are knowing and receiving respect, then that’s a blessing. Keep asking and giving respect to all. Also, keep willing to review a situation when it does not feel like respect to you. Investigate where in your life are you doing that to yourself and/or to anyone or anything else.

What is your respect quotient for your job, your relationship with humans, other entities, animals, and/or things, your earnings, your health and your own self? The priority you are willing to give to each/any of them at a particular time in your life is your respect quotient for them. When you respect that area/person/thing/entity of your life, the same gets reciprocated from the external factors.

You desire respect in an area or for an action in your life, give it value by giving an honest attention and priority. Be willing to change how you are in that area and voila, you respect it and the respect you are asking from others come to you.

Love and respect are not the same but they need not be mutually exclusive.

Respect everything associated with you.

Every aspect of you is worth the respect.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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It Has to be Self-Focal

All the words and action has to be self-focal.  All giving and receiving had to be self-focal.

it has to be self-focal

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Dear Friend!

All have to be self-focal.

How effective you are comes from how clear you are. You want to be clear, you need to connect. You want to connect, it has to be close to you. You want it to be close to you, it has to be or reflective of your true self. To be or reflective of your true self it has to be self-focal. Be it words or physical action the most effective is only the one that is self-focused.

When you look for a certain level of sincerity in something or someone, you need to focus on how that benefits you. What level of your sincerity is satisfactory for you? What level of sincerity do you have for that certain something?

To have a clearer understanding, consider the following household situation. A certain plumbing work required to be done. The affirmation, ‘I have the best plumber’ vs ‘I have the best plumbing work done in my home, I am very satisfied.’ The first one expresses the requirement of the best plumber. The second one focuses on what is best for your home and your level of satisfaction.

Some other examples.

$ When you want to learn a subject or a skill. You asked for the best teacher.

$ When you want some work done personally or professionally. You said you have, attracted, found or have the best personnel with that skill or talent.

$ You are asking for the partner that is wonderful and amazing.

Indeed you will attract, find or have what you are asking for. However, that may not be right for you. Does the achievement of this accomplishment give you the amazingness and wonderfulness that you wanted to enjoy when you affirmed and asked for it! Then a slight tweaking of the affirmation will get you that.

Now consider the following affirmations;

$ ‘I am learning the subject/skill so well. I am getting better and better at it every day.’ What ever required for you to get there will come to you. A teacher/guide that is right for you. Your willingness and motivation to practice.

$ ‘The work (specify the work), is getting done wonderfully.’ Best personnel for the work will arrive or when you hire and it will be done.

$ ‘I feel amazing and wonderful having my partner in my life. I am comfortable having my partner in my space.’ Best partner for you will have, find or will come to you and you will be very comfortable.

Here, there is no pressure to assess anyone else’s qualities. Your much deserving attention will be on the requirement and desire.

When you want to do something for others you could affirm that ‘you are doing or giving your most remarkable effort or contribution.’ You will know you have intended and have done excellently. You have given your best. When you receive a feedback, each and every one them will be motivating. They are praise and appreciation. The others are the ones you could consider for changes or enhancement.

When it is self-focused, you are less distracted. The energy that you give is also directed and channelized only to where it is meant to go and much needed. In this energy, all words and action are in high vibration and all results are in high vibration. This is good for all involved.

The only one that rules in your space is you. Your decision reigns and prevails in your Universe. Only you can decide in your receiving or giving what you are happy with.  It has to be self-focal.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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To Accept Is To Belong

To Accept Is To Belong.

You can belong where ever you are willing to accept to belong.

To Accept Is To Belong

 

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Dear Friend!

To accept is to belong. Accepting somebody or something is belonging to somebody or something.

To accept or to belong, start getting into the practice of accepting.

How much ever someone loves you, if you are focussed on being accepted by or accepting and belonging to somebody else then you will keep looking at them for acceptance. But, you will not be able to accept their acceptance, because you do not know what it is to accept. And you also do not realise that you already accepted.

First get into the practice of accepting. And that can happen when you start going somewhere or being somewhere, where you are willing to accept.

What characteristics would you willingly accept?

If you say ‘love’, then go to a place/person where you feel love. Get enough practice of accepting love. Get accustomed to accepting or choosing to belong where there is a lot of love. Then you will be able to see all that (LOVE) where ever you want to see.

When you do not get acceptance from something or somebody then you will know that you DO NOT belong there.

When you belong somewhere you are not ill-treated there. If you are being ill-treated you don’t need to belong there. You deserve better. There are better options awaiting you.

The reason you attract or create a situation of lack of acceptance is that you are making way for you to learn about ‘acceptance.’

When you do self-motivated actions somewhere or for someone, this is when you know that you DO belong there. You will not leave your turf. Your proclamation is by being convinced by self. You need to decide. The moment you decide to belong somewhere or to someone, there is going to be a lot of prosperity there.

When you not able to belong in one place you look for refuge in other places. You question and desire to belong to more than one place.

The level of responsibility that is required when you want to belong is a ‘whole one’ in itself. There is no partial belonging. You have to value your contribution. When you ask a question regarding belonging and it has ‘doubt’ as a part of it, then you need to know that it comes from your insecurity of not being able to belong.

Not considering and thus not seeing yourself belonging anywhere is what prompts you to: a) want to belong to more than one place or thing b) understand the insecurity that is pushing you into this.

In this state, you are in a hurry to belong, as you urgently want to feel secure. Which most certainly comes from self-convinced fear of not belonging.

So when you ask, ‘where do I belong?’ ‘Do I belong?’

The answer is ‘of course you do.’

You belong on this planet. You belong to you. You will belong to any and all you are willing to accept. You belong where you feel love. You belong where you don’t feel rejected.

You will not miss out on others. So, first belong where you can see yourself accepting and accepted. The increase in self-confidence will allow you to make efforts towards belonging in other areas or people. Parallelly check how many places or people do you give acceptance so easily.

Stay where you feel love and let rest come to you, be willing to accept them.  All of them belong to you. If you reject then you are hesitating or are reluctant to belong.

You can belong where ever you are willing to accept to belong. If you have not taken such a responsibility before then it will seem like work to you. Just once you take that leap of faith. All that you desire are waiting to belong to you and they will come to you.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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