All the words and action has to be self-focal. All giving and receiving had to be self-focal.
All have to be self-focal.
How effective you are comes from how clear you are. You want to be clear, you need to connect. You want to connect, it has to be close to you. You want it to be close to you, it has to be or reflective of your true self. To be or reflective of your true self it has to be self-focal. Be it words or physical action the most effective is only the one that is self-focused.
When you look for a certain level of sincerity in something or someone, you need to focus on how that benefits you. What level of your sincerity is satisfactory for you? What level of sincerity do you have for that certain something?
To have a clearer understanding, consider the following household situation. A certain plumbing work required to be done. The affirmation, ‘I have the best plumber’ vs ‘I have the best plumbing work done in my home, I am very satisfied.’ The first one expresses the requirement of the best plumber. The second one focuses on what is best for your home and your level of satisfaction.
Some other examples.
$ When you want to learn a subject or a skill. You asked for the best teacher.
$ When you want some work done personally or professionally. You said you have, attracted, found or have the best personnel with that skill or talent.
$ You are asking for the partner that is wonderful and amazing.
Indeed you will attract, find or have what you are asking for. However, that may not be right for you. Does the achievement of this accomplishment give you the amazingness and wonderfulness that you wanted to enjoy when you affirmed and asked for it! Then a slight tweaking of the affirmation will get you that.
Now consider the following affirmations;
$ ‘I am learning the subject/skill so well. I am getting better and better at it every day.’ What ever required for you to get there will come to you. A teacher/guide that is right for you. Your willingness and motivation to practice.
$ ‘The work (specify the work), is getting done wonderfully.’ Best personnel for the work will arrive or when you hire and it will be done.
$ ‘I feel amazing and wonderful having my partner in my life. I am comfortable having my partner in my space.’ Best partner for you will have, find or will come to you and you will be very comfortable.
Here, there is no pressure to assess anyone else’s qualities. Your much deserving attention will be on the requirement and desire.
When you want to do something for others you could affirm that ‘you are doing or giving your most remarkable effort or contribution.’ You will know you have intended and have done excellently. You have given your best. When you receive a feedback, each and every one them will be motivating. They are praise and appreciation. The others are the ones you could consider for changes or enhancement.
When it is self-focused, you are less distracted. The energy that you give is also directed and channelized only to where it is meant to go and much needed. In this energy, all words and action are in high vibration and all results are in high vibration. This is good for all involved.
The only one that rules in your space is you. Your decision reigns and prevails in your Universe. Only you can decide in your receiving or giving what you are happy with. It has to be self-focal.
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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