Do not give up. Do Let go.
Till now it has been quite a conundrum to decide when to quit or when to ‘let go’. Understanding them closely will definitely help you with the discretion.
Here we go.
Some quitting is temporary while other times there are no second chances. Some quit on life, people while others quit on responsibility, opportunity or relationship. Some quit frequently, while for some others one time quitting is a big deal. Some quit knowingly in a planned manner and others quit impulsively.
Quitting is a single step process. It is easy but after quitting there are a lot of ‘what if’ questions.
Letting go is step wise process. It is actually required and highly beneficial.
Why is ‘letting go’ necessary? Letting go is essential for proper and smooth movement forward without obstacles, that are occupying your space and holding you back.
How to let go? Letting go can be done by recognising what you need to ‘let go’ and then by deciding to do so. Other methods/techniques through which you can let go are meditation, affirmation and EFT/tapping.
(i) List what does not appeal to you. What hurts you or makes you sad. What you understand is keeping from enjoying the whole life. (ii) Have the willingness to let go that.
Following are some examples. You could create your own list of what you think you want to let go. Be certain of what part of your life from which you would like to ‘let go’.
* Fear, worry, anger and/or guilt about past, present or future. * The extra fat from your body. * Lack of all kinds needs to go from your space. * Limiting behaviours at the conscious and sub conscious level that is keeping you from what you wish to be or what you wish to achieve. *Attributes, behaviours, characteristics, attitudes from your own self or some other person that are not helping and are not fun.
Sometimes letting go, a part of someone is enough. However many times letting go the person and/or the relationship in its present phase and state may be wise. Later on, same people or relationship can re-enter your life when there is an alignment with your present life phase and state.
Very important part of letting go process is what follows and that is to replace what you let go with what makes you happy. Whatever is happening in your life definitely has an element of fun. The situation that is so diligently lingering in your life to get your attention towards your learning requires a closer look. Take out your mental microscope and binoculars and find out what is the good in it.
Physical letting go is very important. Letting go physical and material things can be done instantly or stepwise. Re-organising is the first step of letting go. This is a feasible and reasonable way in deciding what and when needs to be ‘let go’.
Make space for new and loving and prosperous. All that is required for your happy self.
Cutting cords with past painful experiences is another important method of ‘letting go’.
Using Angel studies, taking help from God and Archangel Michael to continuously keep severing the cords with his light sword. The cords to be cut could be of a particular nature or all the cords that are not helpful for you.
It is of utmost importance for you to remember that your safety is always prime, under all circumstances when you decide to quit or to let go.
Make a list of what you clearly want. Good attention, enhancing interaction, loving relationships, bright future, beautiful health, happiness. Ask for only those and talk, discuss, work only towards that.
Be willing to do the action for it and embrace all that is coming your way. May you have fun with everything in your life.
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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