When you don’t take charge of your life other people interfere.
When you DO take charge of your life other people CONTRIBUTE.
You are in charge. You have always been in complete and full charge of all that has happened in past in your life. You could take responsibility of all that is presently occurring or happening in your life.
All the hurts, agony, heartbreak, turmoil, tragedy, misbehavior, losses, pain, is all in your space by your permission and consent. Sometimes it will be surprising to you how you can do that to yourself.
Maybe you are not aware. Maybe you think you deserve it. Maybe you think it is part of the norm.
The rewards, the wins, the fun, the creations, the joy, the laughter, the appreciation, the approvals, are also what you are credited with attracting.
But the fact is you did both. You attracted what gave you discomfort and you attracted what gives you pleasure. You are doing this right now.
As is indicated by English poet William Ernest Henley in his poem “Invictus”- You are the master of your fate, you are the captain of your soul.
You know this today and it will make sense. You understand this that you are the center of your universe.
So don’t resist. Be willing to understand the situation and your mindset. Backtrack your thoughts, your intuitive messages. If you are able to find out what is that you were doing, saying, thinking or intending because of which you are in this situation. What is it that you really want in this situation? You can now decide and make changes in what you are now going to do, say, think or intend.
In case it is still unimaginable that it is you who would have done, said, thought or intended for such a situation in your life, then how to understand and/or change this inexplicably real in your face happenings? You may choose to dismiss the existence of the situation, go into denial. You may choose to look for outside factors to blame. You could turn your focus on other people or higher force to question. You could choose to accept it as a fault on your part.
But, if you could have the willingness to choose to filter out your learning from what has happened. If you are willing to receive and then carry out the action step that is suggested to complete the learning, from another source or through your inner thoughts. You will be able to ‘not’ have these situation(s) repeat in your life. You will evolve and move into the next phase of your life.
Once you decide whether you agree to take the accountability or shift it. Your equation with others in space will vary accordingly.
When you are willing let others take over the responsibility and the blame, you will see yourself having to comply with them. This interferes with your autonomy in decision-making about your life and flourishing.
When you are ready to take charge of all aspects of your life. You get to learn, flourish and enjoy your life to the fullest. All your energy gets invested into your creative life. Other people contribute only if you agree and have the willingness to allow that.
People and Source are all here to co-operate in your life. You are here to contribute in other’s life if they are willing to accept.
The more you get a hold of this acceptability of this reality, more help, and support, creative, motivating and uplifting suggestions will start coming in your space as a contribution in your life from other people. And you will be able to accept.
So decide your route, your routine, and your process. Respect it. Abide by it. You are the boss.
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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