Monthly Archives: December 2017

rolling stone effect

Rolling stone effect of affirmations is an uphill task but will lead you to high vibration. rolling stone effect

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Dear Friend!

Case Study: X just finished with her board meeting and it went very well. She was elated by the approval she received. She was a satisfied being. She could not stop smiling and hoping in and around her workstation. She came back to her desk and she started checking her emails. One of the emails was on a merchandise that she had ordered online. The email was information on the shipment. She continued to be happy. X went on to read the rest of the unread emails. She suddenly felt her eyes getting heavy. She thought a cup of coffee would help her keep her eyes open. She went to the pantry and got herself a cup of coffee. As she was sipping the piping hot coffee she realised that she was continuing to feel drowsy. She quickly checked her calendar and decided to go to the ladies room and lie down on the couch there. As soon as she put her head on the couch she went into a deep sleep and she started to see some scenes. She saw that she was in a room full of very aesthetic wooden shelves. Another female who she did not recognise was trying to press her face on her left side of the face. X realised she was being photographed and the other person’s nose was pressing on to her left cheek, and X was politely removing or moving her face away from her. X was smiling formally but remembered the discomfort. X did not like this lady in her dream or vision. She heard a noise distantly and forcefully opened her eyes. When X opened her eyes they were still heavy and instead of feeling refreshed she was still feeling tired. The sound was that of the alarm clock that she had set to get back to work. Still low in energy she somehow geared herself and headed to her workstation.

What happened to X was that she got into low vibration. Vibration is something that you emit. They get influenced by the energy levels. When the energy levels are low the vibration plummets.

Your fear and anger start to dictate all your actions and thoughts. All that is not working in your life starts to surface in the form memories and words. You become vulnerable to your own thoughts that are not good for you. Your affirmations become complain.

There are several reasons that you can go into low vibration. It could start with an unhappy conversation, thought or a memory and then there is chain of thoughts or internal conversations that follow and you suddenly realise you are in an angry outburst within your own thoughts. Another reason could be someone you have given access to your energy field or space is conveniently or inadvertently taking your energy away from you. However, for this your permission is mandatory.

You are constantly knowingly or unknowingly giving access to person/people without meaning to do so. When you think of someone either lovingly or irritably you open yourself to form an energy channel with them. Your energy leakage depends on what is the vibration of the other person/people. You experience low energy and thus low vibration when there is too much of draining of your energy without having a chance to replenish it. To stop this you can be aware of two important steps that you can do (a) shield yourself every now and then, (b) keep cutting cords with anyone in particular or in general. Additionally, you can keep asking for angelic help to clear your space of any low energies and take help from them to restock your energy.

X in her high vibration earlier that day was going through her mails and the merchandise mail connected her to someone else. But, because she was in her office and was doing other office things she did not pay attention to her fleeting thoughts about that person. She did not realise that she had opened the channel for the other person and thus lost too much energy. In her dream or vision that she got in her short nap was an indication that someone was trying to get close to her.

When you take these naps in low energy situation you get fearful or angry dreams. What you need to do is to use various methods and means to get back into higher vibration then take that rest. AFFIRMATIONS play a great role here. It is an uphill task but you can combine it with EFT/tapping and mirror work. If a mirror is not available then EFT or tapping on one of the meridian points while you affirm really works. If there is a possibility and arrangement of meditation then you could do that too.

Interestingly, sometimes you lose energy even to your loved ones if they are in low vibration. Then you can shield them yourself and them. This has been mostly seen to be a case between parents and children, siblings, lovers, or close friends. Instead of worrying about your loved ones it is advisable to cut your cords with them, shield them and yourself, take angelic help for the good of everyone involved.

Pranic healing is also used to clear, energise and shield in this kind of situation.

Low vibration is read in frequency. It is experienced in emotions, the effect is experienced on your body and at the energy level. It also has an effect on the thinking and body language. Heaviness in the head, upper back, low in energy, drowsiness.

Some don’t realise that they are in low vibration. Some want to linger there for some more time to find answers. But the kind suggestion is that as soon as you realise that you are in low vibration, start your journey back to your higher vibration. What begins to bring you back are your words. These are affirmations.

Thank You and Best Wishes
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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Reliability

Your reliability gauged on your will to stand by good and not-so-good times.

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Dear Friend!

Your reliability for various external factors reflects your reliability for the self and vice versa. Your reliability is gauged on your will to stand by good or not-so-good times.

Every brain has a fight or flight reaction or response stored in them. This is according to the primitive programming that is a combination of information stored in your genes and according to the memories stored in your amygdala.

Anything that makes you insecure about your existence will suggest to you to leave the situation that is the flight response.

For situations where you see a chance or a hope to make a difference either for yourself or for others is where you decide to stay, face it and make the change. That is the fight response.

Your flight or fight response or reaction has an intensity and has a type. It could be to something small or something obvious. It could be a gesture or look, an argument or physical touch, an actual fist fight or verbal abuse. These have an effect on your response or reaction. The intensity and type of the effect are not determined by the incident only. It is based on the many previous data from facts and fiction that have been collated in your mind from before.
For flight response, the incident has to be threatening to you enough to imply to you that it is jeopardising your safety in some way. Mind you it could just be an implication and not the real truth. In reality, you could be in no real physical danger. In fact, you would be far from being in danger and physically safe and secure. But what is physically so, need not be emotionally harmless, nontoxic, inoffensive, nonviolent or innocuous. What affects and thus determines your behaviour at that point is the mental advice based on what reflects to you being in grave physical danger. The only logical action that you see at this point here is to leave the space to be safe. Your understanding of the gravity of the situation also determines the speed of you leaving the situation. This action is the only hope at this point. Flight is only for self.

The similar reasons are responsible for you to not move and stay. You could be doing this for yourself or others. You could be doing that to prove, support, and change something for future events. This is the most valuable quality you would aspire to have in a support system.

It determines your reliability behaviour or reliability quotient.

Why are you reliable, who are you reliable to, what are the situation that suggests you to be reliable and where are comfortable ditching.

When you commit to someone to help, guide, support, or assist in some task or responsibility, what is the reason you follow through or what is the reason for you falling out.

On what basis are you deciding. Past information of course. Now, shift that decision making based on your present and the future you wish to affirm for. Take the responsibility for that shift. You will need to have the willingness not to quit while keeping yourself safe. You will need to behave in a way you wish to be with yourself and with others who are contributing in changing your future. Your behaviour can now by no chance be based on or because of external or other’s influence. You can still observe others and still make a resolution based on what you want your life to be.

Solutions are both in fight or flight reactions. Reliability is when the actions or fight or flight has been taken as an aim to find or for the solution.

Reliability is essential for life enhancement. Reliability is the key to trust.

If you cannot count on yourself then expecting others to be reliable to you or you to be reliable to others is futile. Of course, when other people are involved their willingness has to align with yours. In those situations you maintain your zest to be reliable that is towards to resolve the situation. If by any chance the other party does not want to participate and if they quit then, then reply on letting go and moving on. Because you are willing to move on. You are therefore, reliable enough to take care of the situation.

Your primary aim has to be for you to be reliable for you.

Thank You and Best Wishes
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flexible or uncertain

It is flexibility only when you have a plan or when you have trust in the divine plan.
When you have neither there is uncertainty.

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Dear Friend!

You can be flexible only when you have a plan. Or, you can show flexibility when you have trust in the divine plan. When you have neither then, you have uncertainty.
Flexibility is all about not being stringent and strict. It is about allowing variation in manifestation. The form of the result, timing and the way it comes to you can vary from what you have decided or anticipated.

But, if you are flexible do you think that you are perceived as someone comfortable with whatever is granted to them. You are Ms./Mr. kool. Your needs, requests or asking are not considered with sincerity. And the reciprocation is not given priority. You are taken for granted. You are considered last or always next. Your experience suggests you being devalued.

Do you experience you being flexible is making you unreliable asker and receiver?

The following example will support in understanding this better. When you go to a restaurant and order (a) ‘You choosing the chef’s special.’ Here the decision making is shifted but you know what it is. (b) ‘You choose from the menu’ and allow variation in the way it is cooked. (c) You step in and ‘you announce/demand/feebly mention to get you anything.’

In the above examples, the attitude, behaviour, and action in ‘(a)’ and ‘(b)’, portrays you knowing what you want, you are aware of what you are asking and there is trust in the provider, but you are flexible in receiving. Your way of placing the order in ‘(c)’ shows uncertainty. You don’t know how to ask, who to ask and what to ask. This is because here you are totally unclear about your need or want. The level of uncertainty is determined by the depth of lack of clarity. Therefore, knowing or having clarity on what you desire specifically but being malleable to letting go the need to be stringent or strict about the result, is FLEXIBLE. This gives you the confidence to be open to that which could be beyond your perception of how much and what you deserve. A limitation in this knowledge is responsible for the lack of trust and thus causes uncertainty. When you gain lucidity about your desires in various areas to be of your greatest and highest good then, you feel safe and prosperous considering being flexible. For example, (I) in relationships, you are flexible to look for the attributes, feelings, vibrations, and contributions and not be attached to a person. If it is a specific person then you are flexible to move forward with grace in divine timing. You are flexible in the way this person comes in your life. You are flexible to change rather than be adamant about the other person changing. (II) In health area and for your health you are flexible to having a healthy meal instead of specifying particular cuisine, diet, meal plan and form of exercise. You will choose the one that helps you to achieve your goal. (III) In money area, you are flexible to receiving from known unknown sources. You are clear it is under grace and legal manner. You are clear that you desire to increase your earning, but you are flexible to means and time when that happens. You are flexible taking action steps to achieve that. Meanwhile, because of this flexibility, you are comfortable having money and you are also learning to increase your receiving in your space. (IV) In job area, you want to apply and use your qualifications and have a salary bracket you desire. You are flexible to other conditions like distance and type of colleagues. Another alternative could be that you are clear about what matters to you the most for example safety, experience, and life enhancement. You are flexible about everything else. You are not particular about the position, company, group.

When it comes to goal setting and desire manifestation it is desirable to be flexible but uncertainty is preferred to be avoided. When you have the clarity of your aim, a goal, desire you stop trying to control and regulate the next step or the path. You are flexible in accepting and your receiving is expanding. Flexibility can be fun, it has the curiosity factor of the unknown, keeps you calm, and channelizes your energy towards other creative part/aspect of the desire. Uncertainty comes from ambiguity. Let go worry and fear and trust the plan. Enjoy the flexibility. You will need a tremendous amount of trust.  Flexibility shows that you have faith and most importantly allows you to lovingly release your desire to the universe and not interfere with doubtful questions and allow yourself to manifest and recognise your manifestation sooner and in high vibration.

Thank You and Best Wishes
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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Good makes way for better

All GOOD things do come to an end. It’s true.  This happens to make way for something  BETTER.
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Dear Friend!

Everything that has a start has an end. Anything that commences has to finish. Person/People come in your life for a reason, season or a lifetime. Change happens. Allow it to happen. Do not fret or fume. You receive your experiences as a result of your asking. Not all of the experiences are a cakewalk. Not all change is within your comfort zone. Responsibilities may increases. The effort required could be more. Hours put in could get longer. Resources investment may need to be increased. Do not panic. Do not worry. Do not resist. Let it happen. It is the flow. If it does not flow, it may cause stagnation. This will cause accumulation of toxins in the form of emotions, physical dis-ease, or non-desirable life experiences. All of this causes delay in manifestation of greater good in your desire.

When you don’t like something or you find something undesirable, you will be more than happy to see the back of it. It leaving could be relief, pleasure or a puzzle. It is a puzzle when you don’t recognise what is leaving is or was really not that beneficial for you or that, it is no longer of much use to you or it is not in alignment with your vibration and deservability anymore. You might delay or deny its leaving.

You are in denial mode.

You might ask for it back. You don’t want it to go without a fight. Go ahead, give it your best shot. Reason it out. Do what you can verbally and physically to bring it back or to keep it from leaving. Putting in your best is your right. When the person or people are involved they have to be equally willing to be back or to stay. Having tried everything, when you see it finally leave, let it go.

But, what if something that is leaving is what you like, love, have been beneficial, pleasurable, fun, beautiful, loving and friendly. Here, of course, you will put in all your might to prevent it from going away. You will put in all your understanding of what could be done differently. You will try to convince or cajole your own self, that what is leaving or has left, the heaven above and the earth below and beseech it to stay.

You could go into self-blame or you would blame others. If it does not make sense to you at this point and you see something being taken from you without your permission or prior consent then, you could go through low vibration emotions and behaviors. Even after the begging, praying, name calling, scolding, arguing with self and others, it still does not stay in your space and leaves.

You now gradually start to make peace with what is happening, you calm down.

You are now getting into accepting mode.

Yes, it was good or it seemed good and it has come to an end or is coming to an end. This is also a form of de-cluttering in your space. By the divine and universal rule of de-cluttering, when something good leaves your space, the space or the vacuum created is for something BETTER to enter your life.

Get into receiving mode.

Receive it in a right way. Receive it in faith, with love, show respect, do actions that reflect acceptance and approval.

When the ‘BETTER’ is received in this way and manner you recognise its arrival easily, you recognise the enhanced level in everything from before. In quality, quantity, and in its usability for you. When you stay hung on to what has left, you may not notice what arrives. In this mood, you are far from recognising its benefits. As a result, you don’t notice, experience and therefore you don’t enjoy the presence of the next or new.

What takes the place that is the replacement of what has moved, left or gone could be (a) something which was in your space from before but you get a chance to notice it now and/or it could be (b) something that had left and is coming in a different or changed version. Either ways it is something better.

This could be a path, a habit, a behaviour, an opportunity, a relationship, an attachment, a project, or a resource.

Some may be easy to let go. Others may require more effort.

Take receipt of what goes in high vibration and this will be bearer for good tidings. Shift your focus on your willingness to accept. Only your better everything is awaiting after that.

Affirmation: ‘I am willing to let go what no longer serves my higher purpose, with love and respect. I am willing to receive and accept all that is of my greatest and highest good.’

Thank You and Best Wishes
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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appreciation from others

Why do we expect appreciation from others? – Wednesday Why?

Question from Mrs. Rashmi Harish.
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Dear Friend!

 

You expect appreciation from others because you are not able to appreciate yourself. The reason because of which you have not been able to appreciate yourself is you don’t know how to do it.

So, do you know how to fly a plane? If not, then why not? The answer is because you haven’t learned it. The real reason being, you think you do not know how to fly the plane is because you have not gone through the training that one is supposed to go through. Because somebody told you that you have to go through aeronautics and you require to have the pilot’s license. You have to go through the training period and practice in order to fly a plane.

So to understand appreciation and appreciating, let’s start from the very beginning. What is appreciation? Sugar coating and lying certainly are not. Appreciation can be in part or in whole. You can appreciate by customising the truth.

Case Study: R was invited to Sunday brunch at her mom’s place. R’s mom prepared a rice dish. The other family members declared it to be spicy. R was feeding her daughter so she joined them a little later. It was spicy for R too. But she was comfortable having it with curd as the side-dish. When R’s mom asked for an opinion on the dish, R said point blank, ‘it’s nice.’ According to R, she was praising her to spare her mother from any hard feelings, but what R was actually doing was sparing her own self of possible criticism in future in case she receives an opinion on her creation. Because of this act in hesitation, she had just declared herself a liar in front of her mom and lost her credibility to some extent. Next time if her mom would need an opinion on her cooking when she is preparing for some others/outsiders, she would prefer to call upon and rely on the opinion of those who gave their honest opinion. The true fact is there were lots to appreciate on this occasion. R could appreciate the invitation, the provision of food, the interaction, the fact that R did not need to cook at home that day, R’s daughter got a chance to get closer to her maternal grandparents and cousins. As far as the appreciation for the food specifically was concerned, what R wanted to express was, ‘thanks so much for the food, it is spicy for me but with the side dish it is just amazing.’

Bring in, flexibility in the rules and conditions to appreciate. If the understanding of appreciation is stringent in your mind and are based on rules that revolve around the niceness of you then, when you have to voice an opinion you do that as per the rulebook to be sweet. The moment you know the tricks of the trade in appreciation, (a) how you can delayer it, (b) how it can be segregated that is your likes with the ones you don’t like so much, (b) you getting clear about the difference between appreciation and what you like and that they could be mutually exclusive.
Your image, your character, and your outer appearance need not dictate what and how you appreciate. With clarity and practice, appreciation becomes part of your nature. To appreciate is to mention the blessings. As you keep your focus on your blessings you have more and more things that you find yourself to be appreciative about. Appreciation does not come with a compulsion to be polite. However, appreciation is accepted easily and smoothly when politeness is its adjunct. Appreciation with anger and hurt is still appreciation but the anger and hurt are distracting. When you know that appreciation is not about reporting the complete analysis but can be stating few points then it gets comfortable to choose what you wish to state and what you don’t want to mention. For example when you are invited for a party and you loved the arrangement but did not like the food. You could extend your appreciation for the invitation and arrangement. And then full stop. You are not under any compulsion to narrate the Gospel truth. Start paying attention to how you feel when you are appreciating. If it is not so good feeling then, you are not certain about the appreciation or it is forced. When you feel good about appreciating, it is only then that you will be able to convey it in its desired form.

Another important reason why you had not learned appreciating is because you were taught or told not to self-praise. So what you gathered from that was ‘appreciating’ is other’s job.

This is far from the truth. Appreciating self is also your responsibility. You will gain proficiency in appreciating by practicing on self and about your life. Receiving and giving appreciation to others is you giving value. Appreciating is a choice.

So you took help and support from others now it is your opportunity to apply what you have learned.

Thank You and Best Wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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faith in the effort

Difference between desperation and passion is faith in the effort put in.

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Dear Friend!

Difference between desperation and passion is faith in the effort you put in.

‘Y’, quietly gave a cursory look through the notes that she had been writing while preparing for the interview with the corporate as she waited in the lounge. She recalled something and she opened her laptop and made an addendum to the presentation. While going through the slides she saw the first few slides and smiled. It was about the genesis of her company that she had launched. It had been four years since she had started her venture as an entrepreneur. From all the experiences what she seemed to notice at that point was the calmness with which she was in the present. She was observing and enjoying the experience. As she waited she recalled her behaviour four years ago. She remembered for every project/product and the advertisement she placed for the sale, she would give time and attention to every phone call for the product. She would stay with the caller and answer all the questions and till the caller decided to keep the phone. For every interaction, she would invest all her conviction. She would get hopeful with every interaction for the sale of the product and if she was not able to sell the product she would slip into self-doubt and she would want to improve the product. All this was causing her stress. Even after the finished product in hand, she would keep wondering what to do more. She would ponder over what changes to make in the marketing. She became even more dedicated to adding points that would support the product and increase marketing. Then, as they say, one fine day while she was working on another project developing another product she realised how much she loved how the product was shaping up. At that point, she received a call from a prospective buyer as they had started advertising about the latest product under development. During the phone conversation, she made her points clear, answered the questioned and directed the caller to the website that had the other details. After the brief interaction over the phone, she took leave from the caller and finished the call. She went back to the task at hand and suddenly she stopped and had an epiphany. She was not nervous that she put down the phone too soon, she was not concerned that the buyer may not be satisfied with the information, she was not thinking after the call whether the caller/buyer will call back, or whether anything could have been done differently. She was not trying to please buyer or defend the product.

She saw the change she had made. Her behaviour was as per her passion for the product. Her faith in the work put in was just what was needed. She noted every feedback with confidence and every interaction on the product. Now with every prospective order she would hop and jump with a smile and go to the copy of the product that was her upcoming book, say thank you to it then take another similar trip to the mirror and she said thank you to herself. At present, while she waited in that corporate lounge she was with the similar faith in her effort put in.

The joy had overtaken the desperation.

This comes from the practice of making stress a part of your daily routine.

The habit of stressing comes from much before. When you have been living your life as per the schedule decided, influenced by or as per others then, your time, the decision what you do with your time is never yours and every moment is dictated by decisions made by others. These others were your influencers. These keep changing as per your phase in life. You define your plan of action based on them. You learn about stress too, from these influencers. They become your space fillers. Stress is expressed as an action called desperation. In this, you are always certain that something more needs to be done. So as a result what you do is you get into non-beneficial thinking that takes you to all that has not been done. When opportunities do come you see yourself as unprepared or product/project unfinished so you spend time and energy trying to build assurance around it.

You could sense that and be willing to transform that into passion by saying, knowing, acknowledging and appreciating your efforts. The one that was put in and the one that could be needed.

‘Y’s’ behaviour had started long before. She would not be confident enough to enter the examination hall if she was not revising until the nth moment. She needed that practice to get comfortable finishing a task and allowing herself to get engrossed in other activities. She had to replace stress with other activities as a process. This ultimately helped her to completely displace stress.

Stress and tension on an anticipated result cause the desperation and keep you from having enough faith in your efforts.

Do what you need to do then do other things.

Stress is a sneak‘er’, it has the habit of sneaking in when you are thinking about what more can be done in low vibration. This thinking comes across as doubt and not doing enough.

Be very aware and convert it into constructive thinking by always reminding and being grateful for all that is there, all that is done.

Your gratitude shows your acknowledgment. Your acknowledgment is faith. Your expression of faith shifts the energy to passion.

Keep that. Lead your action and tasks with this understanding. Then you will be able to express passion for your product and market your product with passion.

Thank You and Best Wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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be your BEST

Do not try to be better than others. Be your best.
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Dear Friend!

If there is a competition, the components of a competition are the deciding body or judges, criteria that decide or weigh the points based on which there is an assessment, there is a winner and the rest are the ones that did not win.

Sometimes there is a tie.

Competition always comes with a comparison and an announcement or declaring of the better lot. When you compete what is your aim. Are you trying to do better than ‘x’?

‘x’ being the person, people or situation.

Then it will serve as a short sight. This will give you goals that are in accordance with someone or something else. You are valuing and trusting someone or something other than you. Competition does have short-term benefits. However, you get lost and stop yourself slightly or a lot, because of them, and that is a crime.

You understand and you convince yourself that your creativeness is evident because of the competition. But, what you are doing when you are in competition is re-discovering yourself according to others, curbing and channeling your growth according to others, and adjudging at par to others. You are looking at others while preparing or working on yourself. Your energy and focus go to others while you receive the less of energy and focus on your own self.

Competitions arranged in private and public forums are means to an end. What is your true direction? Decide that. Use competition as a way to get motivated or to get on track or to get disciplined. But, this cannot be it. A competition cannot be an end goal. There are definitely steps decided beyond that. If you have not done that then it is time you get clear about it. Where does the competition you are in or wish to enter, lead you to?

You could address the same question when you compare yourself to others.

But then again, why are you comparing? To feel better or to get better. But then this is apples to oranges comparison. Each of you is unique. Therefore, using others as a milestone is unfair to many and at many levels. That’s also an immense pressure. Trying to compete with others who you don’t know completely about nor will you ever know all about. You may not know all of their struggles, their plans, their hard work, their fall and/or their rise. You just chose to like something about their present outlook and decided to judge them and get close to their success or get better than them. Putting yourself in someone else’s shoes has never been a great idea. As a matter of fact, you spend a lifetime trying to know your own self. Even then you don’t know yourself well enough.

What works best is when you focus on your own qualities, your strengths, your deservability, and most importantly your willingness. You give attention to what you wish to change, what you wish to enhance, and what you wish to add. Account your own resources and utilise them completely. You will be pleasantly surprised at what you already have in qualities on how much of your resources are already at your disposal and at your beck and call. It is all yours.

As far as the others are concerned, if you want you can choose to take inspiration from them, admire them or learn from them.
It is important for you to know, you do because you can do and you do ‘only’ what you can do.
You are exclusive and exceptional. And so are the others. But only as per the contents what is in each of yours and their’s space respectively.

Be your best, do your best and you shall always manifest your desires or something higher, for which you are trying to be the best.

Please do not underestimate, ignore or lose your creativity in comparison or competition. Criticising or feeling less is a no-no. Competition actually is not necessary. Observing, noticing, admiring and getting inspired by the other person or situation is all you need to do.

In your life, in your space, you can get better and be the best. Every single moment you are already doing your best. You could not have done any better. Right. Now, do better than that in this moment, if you are not satisfied. This will be your ‘new best.’ Set your landmarks and your milestones based on what you were or are and if you find necessary by learning from others too.

 

Thank You and Best Wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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