Get It Done

Rather than finding an excuse not to do something, Please find reasons and ways to get it done.

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Dear Friend!

Every drop makes an ocean. Every step irrespective of the size and direction brings you closer to fruition of your goal/aim/desire. Taking that step is a requirement. Avoid presenting or getting convinced by an excuse why the step was not taken.

Focus on how taking the/that step is going to benefit you. On doing this following happens (a) you start to get some or few things done – (b) your confidence gets better and better – (c) you are motivated to take on more tasks – (e) you see completion of milestones/projects – (f) it makes it easier for you to self-approve and ask for approval for others – (g) on receiving approval from others there is boost in morale and it enhances your interaction or interacting skills – (h) interaction makes way for the information flow – (i) more the information, more is the creativity and opportunity – (j) you are satisfied and all these raises your vibration and energy – (k)thus lot more keeps getting done.

Once you get accustomed to knowing, implementing and seeing the sequence of vibration raising events then it is easy to find a reason(s) to take ‘the step’.

Extend your time, go an extra mile, motivate yourself get that one extra bit done. Every ‘granular’ effort now, this moment and today will show ‘gigantic’ reports and results.

Where ever you find it easier to procrastinate, that is the place you need to take that micro step. Do it just for you. On taking this small step please do not look for approval from others. This little step is only for your own encouragement and self-approval. When your work and/or the outcome are visible to you in an appreciable manner, it is only then that the approval from external source starts to pour in.

Commit to where you feel the most resistance. Commend your determination. Keep it regular. Find alternatives.

After you commit to a task or a project, there are chances that there are going to be extra, added, or superfluous responsibilities that might come up. Instead of blaming/looking at that/them as blockage or hindrance, try to cater to both. Partly or complete for both or either.

This extra work comes in your space for a reason.

*They seem as if they are moving you from the timelines you have scheduled but they are there to bring you to the right divine time.

*They have important information related to what you are about to embark on. To know that a simple question can be asked in your mind, ‘what is it that you need me to know through this task/ experience?’

*They show you the vibrational alignment you are in so that if there is an adjustment required you could take care of that before you start the task.

*Or they are there to bring you to a vibrational alignment that is required for the job in hand.

When you decide that these are helpful/supportive inclusions in your already full schedule, then you can utilise these precious gems too, beautifully.

This is an amazing opportunity to prove yourself to you.

It also enhances your multitasking and time management abilities and may even add to your existing skills. Key is to keep finding ways and means to whatever you had initially decided to complete.

Final reward will be beyond what you are knowing is the result. The level of satisfaction and self-pride comes as a bonus.

 

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Stay Calm

Why can’t you be Angry?-Wednesday Why?

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Dear Friend!

‘Please do not get upset, stay calm.’ This is what is told to you when you are ‘angry.’

Calming down is not about suppressing anger. It’s about converting anger state to a non-anger state. Anger is a voluntary response. It is a shortcut behaviour. It is a choice. The other choice is to notice your thoughts. What are the thoughts of events, people, incidents, experiences of yours and others that you have observed that is connected to your present situation that is suggesting you an option of anger behaviour. These thoughts are the once that need to be changed. Self-conversation or counselling is the best way to reverse engineer genesis or early influencers of these behaviours. Tapping or EFT and/or mirror work also helps in reaching to the root of this.

After noting the reason for the trigger it becomes easier for you to interact openly in the same/similar situation with your true expression. You will yourself notice that your true expression is solution based.

Anger is triggered at low vibration and low energy. Anger is a blocker. It blocks you from connecting to all the high vibration entities Your Higher Self, Source, and Angels.

When you are angry or in an angry argument or someone is angry with you, you could request God and Angels to calm yourself and others and keep everyone safe. If you are willing and others too, then you will notice the calming down of your own self and of others too. Argument and scolding become creative discussions and conversation. Staying silent and asking for help till the right supporting thoughts can occur is also useful.

When you are around people or are thinking of people, situations or things that are of low vibrations then knowingly or unknowingly you are sharing your energy with them. If you are unaware of this then you don’t replenish your energy level and you succumb to your low vibration behavior. Cutting cords and taking help to peacefully protect yourself which is a form of shielding also is very necessary to change from anger to nonanger state. Even when people at low energy are thinking/talking about you without your physically present there, you will still feel the drain in energy. However, all kinds of energy sharing or draining will happen with your permission knowingly or unknowingly.

Not expressing anger is also not recommended. The outer demeanor looks calm and ‘keeping it together kind of person’, but if you still are holding anger and resentment, it is detrimental to you. It keeps you from completely expressing your true opinion. If you have anger it is necessary to release it.

You could disperse the anger by walk. Take a walk away from the situation or change the topic for a while. Other ways of releasing anger are kick boxing and acupressure foot massage.

Holding on or expressing too much causes harm at the physical level. It manifests in the physical diseases like cancer and hypertension.

Not getting angry or raising your voice does not mean you are not sincere. You need not be serious to show concern or to prove that you care. Efficiency is not mutually exclusive to calm. You can focus more, make more informed decisions and be clear about them.

In nonanger state there are no vibrational interference.

Anger is neither normal nor healthy. It needs to be dealt with. Release it, solve it, convert it into something creative and fun. Be that with yourself and you will able to be that behaviour always.

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FUN begins now

Difficult is over. FUN begins now.

 

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Dear Friend!

The moment you realise that you or anyone else require healing is the moment you will now know is the end of ‘Difficult’ and the ‘FUN’ begins now.

Sometimes the thing that gives you most despair is what you want to change the most. What you are most inclined to change immediately and impromptu are the ones that are most hurtful. It is hurtful when there is a lack. Lack in ‘faith’ is the lack that tops all lacks. This is indicative from when you feel powerless and start to assess that possibly something outside of you is controlling and deciding for your life.

Your willingness is the main component participating in all your life experiences. People, things, patterns, experiences, and situations stay, change or leave as per your willingness to embrace the learning. There are other components too. Your alertness to understand this process. Your readiness to accept the set but flexible principles the guide you in your journey called LIFE.

Life is carefully designed and decided sequence of learning(s). Universe, your higher force or your higher self, make available for you the resources that are required for the learning. You are co-creating your life in collaboration with them.  They work only according to your willingness. Your learning comes through your life experiences. You, your life experiences, and your learning are unique. You have a lot of the capability and capacity to do whatever is required for these experiences. You chose to be a social being and therefore, asking and taking help is an important attribute in this choice of status. Your capabilities will contribute in someone else’s life’s learning experiences. Someone else’s capability will contribute in your life’s experiences. Contribution in each other’s lives is also a life experience that is part of life’s learning for all involved.

Who to involve in asking and how to ask is a significant factor in this. What follows after asking and how that needs to be handled is yet another important factor. Asking has to be clear, specific and yet has to have flexibility. Asking is followed by receiving. You involve self and/or others for both asking and receiving. Asking and receiving in high vibration is a magical way of getting what you have asked for or something higher. And is therefore highly recommended. Asking and receiving is the most necessary capability that you have. You need to apply your willingness to utilise this capability to smoothen the life’s movement in the forward direction.

In gist, when there is hurt, you want to remove hurt, you ask and you receive help, your learning is attained. It’s time to celebrate.

Thus your knowledge of these life’s protocol/steps gives you the awareness of the fact that the moment you detect something is difficult, the most plausible end to that is FUN.

So now you don’t need to be scared of tough life experiences. You don’t need to worry. You use to worry because you did not know what to do in this situation or what lies ahead in this situation.

Knowledge itself is powerful.

Implementation is the key to acknowledging the power.

Go right ahead. Remember and remind yourself to follow the life’s protocol. Have a wonderfully deserving life. Have FUN.

 

Best wishes

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Do things because YOU CAN

Do things because YOU CAN not because someone else cannot.

 

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Dear Friend!

Do you like to help or support! Are you helping kind! What is the exclamation remarks that come out of your mouth when you see someone in need?

O sad he/she/they/it cannot!

Or

O Yay I can! I am here! I got you, buddy!

You cannot give anything that you don’t already have. When you do decide to give, it comes from a combination of having enough to share and the willingness to share. While giving, your attention goes to two aspects  (a) what is the requirement at/of the situation (b) what you have and if you have the willingness to share.

Your abilities hold more value and use than others lack of it.

When you focus on others inabilities. You try your best to compensate that by keeping them comfortable to provide them the support whilst your real investigative mind focus is on ‘why they were not able to.’ What you focus on you attract. The inability you are focussing on, you end up noticing in your life in some area. This inability is also lack. This instills fear, which is connected to ‘not having enough.’ Questions like, would this happen when you are in this position, that is, when you cannot, starts to arise in your mind.

Next time you look at someone with lack then, instead of checking your ‘banks full of abilities’, you get more fearful of ‘what if.’ You will, therefore, see lack everywhere. It also proves to you that it is not nice not to have, that is when you do not have you have to ask or depend. You try your best not to be in that position. So you constantly are in the reminder of that. You still get in these situations and by now it is registered in your mind that it is not pleasant to be in this position. You now develop an aversion towards such situations that imply lack to you. This impression extends to the person/thing/entity that is in this situation. You start asking all wrong questions ‘why did this situation happen’, ‘should have known better.’ And all your intentions of providing support ‘because you can’, becomes more about ‘because they cannot.’ When you are not ready, unwilling or are unprepared, it may cause irritation and dislike towards extending the help and support.

Respect every situation, entity, experience. Have respect for it. Life is full of experiences customised to each one on this planet. Each one is here to be co-dependant. Each and every person is not here to have all the same abilities. ABILITIES are inherent and/or are developed and is also absorbed and reflected according to an individual. Complementation of the abilities is what gives you an opportunity to flex the muscles of the abilities. It is a feel good factor when you contribute where your ability is required, in demand, has value and is beneficial.

You need not look for situations with inabilities. Because if you do spot them, that only means that you have been able to do so because it is a reflection of something within you.

Focussing and being grateful for what you can, only helps gain enough confidence in what you can.

Each opportunity you get to share ‘what you can’, is an excellent chance to keep honing ‘what you can.’ So when the opportune time and event comes you shall get to satisfactorily utilise and show ‘what you can.’

Thank you for contributing, helping and supporting. Thank you because you can.

Best wishes

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Internal RESPECT exudes external respect

Your Inner Self RESPECT Exudes Respect From External Factors.

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Dear Friend!

What is respect? What is your understanding of RESPECT? What does it mean to you to be respected?

What words? What decibel? What body language? What physical action or gesture? Where did you first learn about respect? What is your first memory of respect or disrespect? Listing out what is disrespect for you can also give you definition of or knowledge of what RESPECT is for you. Disrespect or showing others down does not mean respect for you. Validation of respect is always at the feelings level.

How to know what is ‘RESPECT’ for you? You notice, observe people and entities getting respect. That becomes your understanding of respect. Even when you understand it is your influencers version of respect you need to know, it is actually the understanding you have chosen so it is YOUR definition of respect.

To understand ‘respect’ better find out how much respect you are getting in your life!

Are you getting enough respect in your life? There are three correct answers to this question (a) YES (b) NO (c) MAYBE.

Let’s address them, starting with ‘Maybe’.

(c) Maybe, I think so, I am not sure: This is when you are clearly uncertain whether what you are getting is respect. Because the effect of the respect that is supposed to be is not there for you for long or fades off in a while. This is the point where you need to revisit the understanding of the word ‘respect’ in your space. Review the idea of respect. Are you trying to replicate someone else’s understanding of respect? Are you dismissing the other gestures of respect that you are receiving?

Then know this, ‘you have been asking for someone else’s idea of respect’, and as soon as you get it, it’s a ‘feel good factor’ on an immediate basis. However, very soon you will see the same gesture as something quite the opposite of respect.

Notice people and entities you respect. What is it that you see? Ask yourself, what is it about them that you like that emits an understanding of respect to you? Then sense it at the feelings level. You feel calm content, motivated and/or exhilarated if you get the same or similar gestures. That’s it, this is your version of respect. Change, enhance, add or tweak as your knowledge of/in life grows.

(b) No: Then start to understand and create a definition of respect. Now apply it to yourself. Yes, even gesture-wise. Open the door for yourself as if you are opening and holding the door for your most favourite person. Thank yourself for that gesture, in your mind or out loud. When you see your reflection anywhere greet or appreciate your reflection silently or audibly. Smile or just show acknowledgment say by a nod, at yourself. When you feel good then you know you have gotten what is respect for you.

(a) Yes: If you already are knowing and receiving respect, then that’s a blessing. Keep asking and giving respect to all. Also, keep willing to review a situation when it does not feel like respect to you. Investigate where in your life are you doing that to yourself and/or to anyone or anything else.

What is your respect quotient for your job, your relationship with humans, other entities, animals, and/or things, your earnings, your health and your own self? The priority you are willing to give to each/any of them at a particular time in your life is your respect quotient for them. When you respect that area/person/thing/entity of your life, the same gets reciprocated from the external factors.

You desire respect in an area or for an action in your life, give it value by giving an honest attention and priority. Be willing to change how you are in that area and voila, you respect it and the respect you are asking from others come to you.

Love and respect are not the same but they need not be mutually exclusive.

Respect everything associated with you.

Every aspect of you is worth the respect.

Best wishes

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It Has to be Self-Focal

All the words and action has to be self-focal.  All giving and receiving had to be self-focal.

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Dear Friend!

All have to be self-focal.

How effective you are comes from how clear you are. You want to be clear, you need to connect. You want to connect, it has to be close to you. You want it to be close to you, it has to be or reflective of your true self. To be or reflective of your true self it has to be self-focal. Be it words or physical action the most effective is only the one that is self-focused.

When you look for a certain level of sincerity in something or someone, you need to focus on how that benefits you. What level of your sincerity is satisfactory for you? What level of sincerity do you have for that certain something?

To have a clearer understanding, consider the following household situation. A certain plumbing work required to be done. The affirmation, ‘I have the best plumber’ vs ‘I have the best plumbing work done in my home, I am very satisfied.’ The first one expresses the requirement of the best plumber. The second one focuses on what is best for your home and your level of satisfaction.

Some other examples.

$ When you want to learn a subject or a skill. You asked for the best teacher.

$ When you want some work done personally or professionally. You said you have, attracted, found or have the best personnel with that skill or talent.

$ You are asking for the partner that is wonderful and amazing.

Indeed you will attract, find or have what you are asking for. However, that may not be right for you. Does the achievement of this accomplishment give you the amazingness and wonderfulness that you wanted to enjoy when you affirmed and asked for it! Then a slight tweaking of the affirmation will get you that.

Now consider the following affirmations;

$ ‘I am learning the subject/skill so well. I am getting better and better at it every day.’ What ever required for you to get there will come to you. A teacher/guide that is right for you. Your willingness and motivation to practice.

$ ‘The work (specify the work), is getting done wonderfully.’ Best personnel for the work will arrive or when you hire and it will be done.

$ ‘I feel amazing and wonderful having my partner in my life. I am comfortable having my partner in my space.’ Best partner for you will have, find or will come to you and you will be very comfortable.

Here, there is no pressure to assess anyone else’s qualities. Your much deserving attention will be on the requirement and desire.

When you want to do something for others you could affirm that ‘you are doing or giving your most remarkable effort or contribution.’ You will know you have intended and have done excellently. You have given your best. When you receive a feedback, each and every one them will be motivating. They are praise and appreciation. The others are the ones you could consider for changes or enhancement.

When it is self-focused, you are less distracted. The energy that you give is also directed and channelized only to where it is meant to go and much needed. In this energy, all words and action are in high vibration and all results are in high vibration. This is good for all involved.

The only one that rules in your space is you. Your decision reigns and prevails in your Universe. Only you can decide in your receiving or giving what you are happy with.  It has to be self-focal.

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Reena Yadav, IADLife

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To Accept Is To Belong

To Accept Is To Belong.

You can belong where ever you are willing to accept to belong.

 

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Dear Friend!

To accept is to belong. Accepting somebody or something is belonging to somebody or something.

To accept or to belong, start getting into the practice of accepting.

How much ever someone loves you, if you are focussed on being accepted by or accepting and belonging to somebody else then you will keep looking at them for acceptance. But, you will not be able to accept their acceptance, because you do not know what it is to accept. And you also do not realise that you already accepted.

First get into the practice of accepting. And that can happen when you start going somewhere or being somewhere, where you are willing to accept.

What characteristics would you willingly accept?

If you say ‘love’, then go to a place/person where you feel love. Get enough practice of accepting love. Get accustomed to accepting or choosing to belong where there is a lot of love. Then you will be able to see all that (LOVE) where ever you want to see.

When you do not get acceptance from something or somebody then you will know that you DO NOT belong there.

When you belong somewhere you are not ill-treated there. If you are being ill-treated you don’t need to belong there. You deserve better. There are better options awaiting you.

The reason you attract or create a situation of lack of acceptance is that you are making way for you to learn about ‘acceptance.’

When you do self-motivated actions somewhere or for someone, this is when you know that you DO belong there. You will not leave your turf. Your proclamation is by being convinced by self. You need to decide. The moment you decide to belong somewhere or to someone, there is going to be a lot of prosperity there.

When you not able to belong in one place you look for refuge in other places. You question and desire to belong to more than one place.

The level of responsibility that is required when you want to belong is a ‘whole one’ in itself. There is no partial belonging. You have to value your contribution. When you ask a question regarding belonging and it has ‘doubt’ as a part of it, then you need to know that it comes from your insecurity of not being able to belong.

Not considering and thus not seeing yourself belonging anywhere is what prompts you to: a) want to belong to more than one place or thing b) understand the insecurity that is pushing you into this.

In this state, you are in a hurry to belong, as you urgently want to feel secure. Which most certainly comes from self-convinced fear of not belonging.

So when you ask, ‘where do I belong?’ ‘Do I belong?’

The answer is ‘of course you do.’

You belong on this planet. You belong to you. You will belong to any and all you are willing to accept. You belong where you feel love. You belong where you don’t feel rejected.

You will not miss out on others. So, first belong where you can see yourself accepting and accepted. The increase in self-confidence will allow you to make efforts towards belonging in other areas or people. Parallelly check how many places or people do you give acceptance so easily.

Stay where you feel love and let rest come to you, be willing to accept them.  All of them belong to you. If you reject then you are hesitating or are reluctant to belong.

You can belong where ever you are willing to accept to belong. If you have not taken such a responsibility before then it will seem like work to you. Just once you take that leap of faith. All that you desire are waiting to belong to you and they will come to you.

Best wishes

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it happens the next moment

If it has not happened yet. It only means that it can happen the next moment. Any moment now.

Because, only good is in store for you.

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Dear Friend!

Desires, Manifestations, Time Spans vary.

Giving manifestation time its due respect requires patience and faith.

Assurance of manifestation of desire is an affirmation. Keeping the assurances in high vibration is a necessity to manifest beautifully.

You need assurance to fill in the tiny bit of a space in your wait period that has the choice of getting filled up either by anxiety or by confidence. Assurance nudges the confidence into this space and keeps you in vibration that is not low. In this vibration, the creative suggestion that comes as guidance for an action step to be carried out in this waiting period is better understood because of the assurance. You are either ready to do anything provided it indicates that it is for your desire manifestation or you are in no mood to do anymore.  Assurance gives that guarantee to the action suggested. To do those actions a reason and motivation are necessary.

In absence of assurance, there is a lack of security and approval. You may see yourself being kept in the balance, with no understanding of what is next. This may result in you reassessing your desire thus completely changing your asking. You may self-blame or go into self-doubt.

Words that affirm that ‘your desires have happened and you are about to see them’ or ‘your desires are happening’, are the ones that keep you on the receiving track. Keep them close. Keep them handy. Repeat them as you need and will.

When you affirm these assurances, right after that you could look for sign and symbol that reinforces your trust and keeps you from interfering with what the Universe is set out to provide for you on your request.

“Only your greatest and highest good is in store for you.”

“Only my greatest and highest good is in store for me.”

If you are willing to add this affirmation which is a highlight to all of your assurances, then the previous assurances and the wait is easier to agree with.

In all situations, conditions, choices you just need to keep this affirmation/assurance close to you.

Life’s learning is either giving pleasure or comes with learning. Both promise ‘good’ for you in your life.

Assurances keep you calm and thus increases your visibility of your desires actually manifesting. When you stress about it coming true, there are chances that it has come true and you have missed it as you were busy questioning the process.

Your desires are entirely yours and it is entitled to be manifested only for you. You need not fear of it getting over in quota or getting assigned to someone else because of your x y z reasons. Your desires have your copy right.

The only one who can and will receive it is YOU.

Ask, have faith, affirm, see the signs, do the action, receive the manifestation with joy.

And during all that have fun.

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Why suffer when you chant or affirm

Why suffer when you chant or affirm?-Wednesday Why?

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Q by Sandhya Rani T D, Bangalore, Karnataka.

“It is said that some Shlokas you chant once there is a huge list of benefits including wishes get fulfilled and we are freed of bondage and attachments etc. All the fruits of these good deeds multiplied by 10000 times is got by chanting only once. Then why is that we continue to struggle and suffer in spite of doing all this chanting. I am sure our Rishis and Sages have done this for our people to benefit.”

 

Dear Friend!

Chanting praises of Lord, God or Goddesses is a practice. Many do this ritualistically, diligently, sincerely, partially, or forcefully, according to their choice. The words that are uttered during the chanting are equivalent to appreciation and gratitude to a higher force. The trust that you express through your chanting to the higher power ignites the faith and raises the security within. This gives you more confidence about your life experiences, handling your life situations and in asking about your pending desires.

Chanting is, therefore, a Vibration Raising Agent*. It raises the vibration and therefore brings you at the vibrational alignment with all the benefits and fulfillments that are made to be known to you.

Chanting like affirmation is one-time prescription. One time is all it takes.

Raising vibration per se comes from building momentum. As you stepwise or gradually get to the high vibration, it is here that your words which are your wishes start getting communicated to the higher source.

Higher force, Source, God, Universe are high energy and high vibrational entities. Communication with them is established better here. Receiving and asking is more clearly understood here. You get clear about what you really want to ask. You also get clear on what you are hearing as guidance. Manifestations take place on following those guidance. Being in this level of vibration is a boost in confidence and you, therefore, most definitely follow the guidance. And when you do follow the guidance the desires start to come true.

When the guidance is not clearly understood it seems as if it is not received. Sometimes you receive guidance but you don’t carry them out. In both situations, you don’t see your desires come true. This dwindles your connection and faith with the Source, the higher power. Suffering starts here. When you re establish your connection and faith with the higher power, through meditation, focussed chanting, and then by gathering the guidance. Regular practice of this reconnects you to Source and the suffering starts to diminish.

Chanting to convey your gratitude and/or desires is like affirming.

When you chant or affirm at one time and reach the high vibration and you communicate with what you believe in as higher power, what do you do next? After the communication of the desire do you keep the faith and trust that you don’t need to recheck? Or do you start with your regular life showing semi or some doubt? You start to re word your desires and thus change your request.

While you are chanting or affirming you are not saying anything other than what you wish to say. This is a reason why you require to chant or affirm several times.

Many times you are sad because you haven’t received what you want. So your chanting or affirmations are in sad or low vibrations. While saying it several times there are moments of your unawareness when you inadvertently and unknowingly slide into the high vibration. These moments of your unawareness are the loopholes. It is here that your words for desire slip into the high vibration and get clearly communicated to the higher power. This is an another important reason for chanting or affirming several times.

 

Chanting or affirming with faith is saying it clearly and still being flexible.

Chant or affirm once with faith and trust. That is all it takes. Follow the guidance in the form of follow up action. May all your dreams and desires come true!
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*VRA: Vibration Raising Agent and VLA: Vibration Lowering Agent are IADLife terms

 

 

WILLINGNESS is way forward

Where there is unwillingness, there is resistance. Where there is willingness there is way forward.

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Dear Friend!

CaseStudy: ‘R’ started for Starbucks one Sunday morning a practice that she had started a week ago, for her blog writing something she was very passionate about. Her waking up later than the time she needed to wake up, not remembering to re-schedule with the house staff so now she had to wait for her, receiving an unexpected phone call and her having to revisit the flat to pick up her pen and then her face towel were series of events that were moving her stepping out to a later timing. For every intrusion, she affirmed, ‘This is happening for a very good reason. Something very good will come out for me.’ Sitting in her car, as she placed the key in the ignition, she reviewed all of it. Even after she reached the destination she did not get the desired parking spot. She realised that all those were the resistance that she had encountered.

Question is why?

Even though her understanding was that she was on her way to do what she loved to do that is to go to café and to write on her favourite subject of human science. She still had attracted a battery of situations that were keeping her from doing that comfortably.

These unexpected events that took place between her leaving the home to reaching Starbucks were actually ‘resistance’. Her resistance was due to lack of willingness. She now needed to find out what was ‘the resistance keeping her from achieving’. This would provide her the answer to where the willingness was lacking.

And after she finds out where was her lack of willingness then that would answer what was causing all the resistance to show up and she could work on eliminating them. Letting go or eliminating the resistance will increase the willingness.

‘R’ was also finishing writing a book for which she wanted to clear some time in the week. Once she understood it was connected to the publishing of the book, she addressed the fears, hesitation, and responsibilities connected to completing and publishing the book.

How did she get over the resistance?

Under all conditions, she wrote her book with no excuses. She did tapping/EFT whenever she felt fear or energy lowering while writing the book.

Lack of willingness is unwillingness.

Unwillingness can be obvious or subtle. Some things you don’t like find difficult or don’t agree. Unwillingness for these is obvious. You openly say it or show it. When you love an action, look forward to learning and doing, is as per your plan and you still face situations that make moving forward not smooth. Unwillingness here is subtle.

In obvious unwillingness, you would welcome the resistance and use them as a logical rational reason not to move in that direction. In subtle unwillingness, you need to investigate. You need to dig out the reason for the unwillingness and recognise the resistance. Then you solve or let go them for smooth sail ahead.

These situations that you face are the resistance.

Resistances are towards change, personal growth, to accept help and support. Resistance could come up as situations with money, time, distance, doubt, questions, phone call, sleep, hunger, bio breaks, other alternative engagements, people and/or relationships. Largest resistance is not recognising what you already have and showing gratitude for what you have. Resistance becomes blockages connected to all the above. All these blockages give rise to thoughts and words that bring you down to low vibration. At this vibration, manifestation does not take place or sometimes is difficult or if it does happen, leaves you with the same low vibration in which you so relentlessly manifested. Thus, the joy of manifestation is missing here.

Understanding the reason for the resistance and removal of resistance converts the unwillingness to willingness.

Your willingness can help you achieve all that you set out to act on. It opens doors, creates and brings opportunities, support system, resources and gives energy for all that you want to do.

Willingness gives you the confidence that all is possible.

Best wishes

Reena Yadav, IADLife

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