To Accept Is To Belong.
You can belong where ever you are willing to accept to belong.
To accept is to belong. Accepting somebody or something is belonging to somebody or something.
To accept or to belong, start getting into the practice of accepting.
How much ever someone loves you, if you are focussed on being accepted by or accepting and belonging to somebody else then you will keep looking at them for acceptance. But, you will not be able to accept their acceptance, because you do not know what it is to accept. And you also do not realise that you already accepted.
First get into the practice of accepting. And that can happen when you start going somewhere or being somewhere, where you are willing to accept.
What characteristics would you willingly accept?
If you say ‘love’, then go to a place/person where you feel love. Get enough practice of accepting love. Get accustomed to accepting or choosing to belong where there is a lot of love. Then you will be able to see all that (LOVE) where ever you want to see.
When you do not get acceptance from something or somebody then you will know that you DO NOT belong there.
When you belong somewhere you are not ill-treated there. If you are being ill-treated you don’t need to belong there. You deserve better. There are better options awaiting you.
The reason you attract or create a situation of lack of acceptance is that you are making way for you to learn about ‘acceptance.’
When you do self-motivated actions somewhere or for someone, this is when you know that you DO belong there. You will not leave your turf. Your proclamation is by being convinced by self. You need to decide. The moment you decide to belong somewhere or to someone, there is going to be a lot of prosperity there.
When you not able to belong in one place you look for refuge in other places. You question and desire to belong to more than one place.
The level of responsibility that is required when you want to belong is a ‘whole one’ in itself. There is no partial belonging. You have to value your contribution. When you ask a question regarding belonging and it has ‘doubt’ as a part of it, then you need to know that it comes from your insecurity of not being able to belong.
Not considering and thus not seeing yourself belonging anywhere is what prompts you to: a) want to belong to more than one place or thing b) understand the insecurity that is pushing you into this.
In this state, you are in a hurry to belong, as you urgently want to feel secure. Which most certainly comes from self-convinced fear of not belonging.
So when you ask, ‘where do I belong?’ ‘Do I belong?’
The answer is ‘of course you do.’
You belong on this planet. You belong to you. You will belong to any and all you are willing to accept. You belong where you feel love. You belong where you don’t feel rejected.
You will not miss out on others. So, first belong where you can see yourself accepting and accepted. The increase in self-confidence will allow you to make efforts towards belonging in other areas or people. Parallelly check how many places or people do you give acceptance so easily.
Stay where you feel love and let rest come to you, be willing to accept them. All of them belong to you. If you reject then you are hesitating or are reluctant to belong.
You can belong where ever you are willing to accept to belong. If you have not taken such a responsibility before then it will seem like work to you. Just once you take that leap of faith. All that you desire are waiting to belong to you and they will come to you.
Reena Yadav, IADLife
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